Here's the deal. I'm 24 act pretty straight. My parents asked when I was in High School and I said no and have been lying since. I have been with my first boyfriend for 1 month, he is also in the closet. How should I go about coming out, I don't believe I owe anyone explanations for my life. But I do work a lot with a few gay people and want to tell one of them pretty bad. So I can go to him for advice . I am more and more realizing how time is short and I'm tired of rethinking myself all the time. Being with my first boyfriend has shown me a love I never expected and I don't know if I could have the same kind of love with a girl. I don't want my straight friends to think differently though, and treat me as if I have a crush on any of them. I am torn between my heart and my mind. :/ I just want to be happy, I also feel tired of hiding it the world doesn't change if you don't make it change. So I don't know any ideas?