how to compare penis with friend

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    I am 18 and i have a friend how is always touching his dick and lately i have been wondering how mine compares to his. I don't know how to go about doing this. I know there is already forms about this but i have some more issues. I am fine to show him mine but i am embraced. I do know his is perfectly straight when erect and mine is not. Also, whenever i am naked in front of people, girls or boys, i get a big old hard one. I just get reminded of sex. How to i stop the erection? I am not gay and i don't want him thinking i am.
     
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    Ironically - the fear of an erection makes you nervous - the nerves cause the erection.

    The point is to not stress- especially at your age, erections will usually arise in the most inconvenient of circumstances. If it happens, just make fun of yourself (if you need) "stupid, son of a bitch, lol"
     
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    haha, dude I always feel like this. Im always like, wanting my freinds to just like causually whip it out. This day has yet to come
     
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    i think if we knew how to do that...we'd all be a lot happier. :wink:
     
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    I dunno, I would like to do the same with one of my friends, but it seems unlikely at the moment...
     
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    i think you just got to ask. if youre thinking about it, its likely they are too at some point. just go for it. or just take yours out, start a trend.
     
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    when he start touching himself say you got some wood going there,you rubbing one off or what.....say betcha mines bigger then whip yours out and say check out the size of this bad boy, just laugh and make a joke of it
     
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    i think it depends on the type of friendship. i have had buds where our friendship wasn't really like that. i've also had buds where we talked alot about fucking girls and sex and there was more of that type of bond. i think if you have more in common in the latter area then it's not that big of a deal, but if you probably shouldn't go there.
     
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    lol. i agree. i could care less when one of my buds groped himself or whatever. we're all guys and its normal. no need to be a prude.
     
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    I have only show my dick once to another man. It was a few years ago. He pulled his out first and was show me something specific. I don't remember what it was, i think his real reason was just to show me he was well endowed. I have other friends who i would like to compare with but i don't have the courage to just whip mine out. I am interested to see what everyone has to say.
     
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    Also, could you guys tell of your experiences. They are fun to hear and help me work up the courage to pull mine out.
     
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    Actually is quite the opposite . If you are nervous that will affect your erection in the negative way . It will not get erected .
     
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    If you would like to compare soft, you can go to a pool or to the sauna together.

    Avoiding an erection is almost impossible, I am afraid. Anyway i it happens you can always tell him about that hot girl, or a porn you saw... Anyway, you don't need to justify an erection, nor having it in front of a man makes you "gay".

    If you want to compare hard try watching some porn together. You both might come so horny that you'd need some jerking, and then you can compare.
     
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