Okay, my boyfriend isn't really big on having sex. However, I sorta am.. (even though I'm a virgin). [We have a long distance relationship, but I am visiting him in June, then he is coming back to visit me in August then we're driving up from Texas to California] Anyways, we're gonna be moving in together and going to college together in Fall 2o1o. I think and feel he is the one who should take it. However, he isn't really big on doing so since he knows that I promised myself I would stay abstinence..but, I don't think I can wait any longer.. I need a way to politely hint on that I want him to take my virginity without him thinking I'm just using him for sex. (Which I'm not cause I'm deeply in love with him, even if my mom doesn't exactly like him) We've been going out for a half a year, and our anniversary is on December 2nd. His birthday is on the 28th (of December). I want to give him my virginity as a birthday/anniversary gift after I've given him the PSP he wanted. [Yes, I do realize its far to early, but I need some ideas to sit and think about without being plagued with the thoughts on the last minute.] If you have any questions please ask?