hello to all, this is my first post but I have been lurking for a while. I find it very hard to cum for my GF, and not only now but possibly all my relationships and one night stands through out my life. The reason why I mention my GF is that she can cum very very fast, however much try to delay her, she cums in under 2 mins or so, where as we always have to finish me off by hand. I would rather cum inside a condom and inside a warm body but for some reason I don't find it as sexually arousing as watching a girl manually make me cum. What do you guys do to make your selves cum faster? Is it a size thing? I've always been told I'm big, and I guess it's the case otherwise I wouldn't be here. I also find it hard to piss in public urinals if someone is standing next to me, could the two things be linked? well, I thank you in advance for any comments you have.