Hey, I have a kinda casual friend I've met up with a few times in the past at parties and raves etc. When he visits my home town he always wants to chill and I am accommodating and we have a good time together. He lives in the same city as my brother and tells me to get a hold of him when I am down visiting my family and he'll show me around and we'll have a good time etc.
Anyway, I am here visiting my brother and I text him a few times and he says we'll hang out and then won't really give a definitive time as to when. I don't want to come across as too needy but he was the one telling me to get a hold of him in the first place. Do I keep texting in an attempt to get a straight answer or should I just let him decide when if at all when we meet up? I don't want to pester the dude, but it's kinda bothersome that he made it sound so for sure and just to get a hold of him etc. Anyway, maybe I just needed to rant a little.
Anyway, I am here visiting my brother and I text him a few times and he says we'll hang out and then won't really give a definitive time as to when. I don't want to come across as too needy but he was the one telling me to get a hold of him in the first place. Do I keep texting in an attempt to get a straight answer or should I just let him decide when if at all when we meet up? I don't want to pester the dude, but it's kinda bothersome that he made it sound so for sure and just to get a hold of him etc. Anyway, maybe I just needed to rant a little.