How to deal with sexual harassment.

[Scarletbegonia]

I used Wally as the Ur-SPHer.

 

[950483]

He's just having some fun indulging a fantasy online. At least he doesn't lie about his agenda. I think he's the only truly creative sph-er on the site, and if you get him off that topic, he's a riot. He's just a lonely guy with an unusual kink he probably can't talk about offline. He's been on and off my ignore list over the years, but once I figured out he was basically a good troll (and every forum needs a few ridiculous trolls-- does anyone else miss Chase? I can't even remember his screen name to save my soul. DoubleMeatWhopper, anyone? ) I decided to find out what he was really like. He's bright. He's got a dark, often self-deprecating sense of humor. He's friendly. He's geeky. He's going to disagree with this, but he's absolutely fearless in the face of adventure. I like these things about him. I'd love to grab some pizza with him some day.

@wallyj84 returned just at the right time around Christmas, and brought his sense of humour with him - thank goodness! This place was getting depressing. (I know I was doing some of it myself, sorry. )

 

[wallyj84]

Perhaps I laid it on a bit too thick, because all three of them looked as miserable as sin yesterday. One of them hasn't been sleeping well, and doesn't want to be a doorman any more. One of them broke a kids fingers when I'm not sure it was entirely necessary to do so. The biggest one looked like he wanted to go home and cry.

I felt cheerful though .

@Scarletbegonia Great idea! I'll try to save it for when they've recovered from their existential crisis.

Good job. Us inferiors should know our place.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

Wally's bizarre contributions to lpsg will be remembered throughout the site's history.

 

[TexanStar]

How to deal with sexual harassment when making an official complaint is not possible.

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Does anyone have any other tips or suggestions for dealing with these type of situations?.

File a lawsuit or change jobs.

 

[LaFemme]

@wallyj84 returned just at the right time around Christmas, and brought his sense of humour with him - thank goodness! This place was getting depressing. (I know I was doing some of it myself, sorry. )

Good job. Us inferiors should know our place.

Wally's return was one of my favourite Christmas gifts this year! I completely ignore his sph stuff and just focus on his good heart and his incredibly funny point of view. He brings something to this site.

I can't help it, I like him.

 

[950483]

File a lawsuit or change jobs.

 

[950483]

Good job. Us inferiors should know our place.

What if they need reminding in future? Any suggestions?

 

[554279]

Never underestimate what stupid people are capable of when in groups.

Banter and light hearted comebacks could come back and bite you in the ass should things get ugly. It may feel good for a minute or two watching mister average turn red, but you wouldn't want any of your words or conduct be construed as consent setting an atmosphere for tolerance.

You never know what is going on between the other persons ears and the difference between dealing with mister rude vice mister jack the ripper 2.0 may be questioning his diminutive dick.

 

[wallyj84]

What if they need reminding in future? Any suggestions?

I don't know. Just remind them that their dicks are small and that bigger dicks are better. In their heart of hearts they know the truth. That's why they're all depressed now.

 

[LaFemme]

I don't know. Just remind them that their dicks are small and that bigger dicks are better. In their heart of hearts they know the truth. That's why they're all depressed now.

See? Whenever there's war, racism and hatred in the world - Wally knows just how to make me feel better.

 

[palakaorion]

Never underestimate what stupid people are capable of when in groups.

Banter and light hearted comebacks could come back and bite you in the ass should things get ugly.

^ this

Escalation of hostilities is seldom wise and occasionally dangerous.

 

[redpubes]

Your luck, you will say that to a guy that is just as big or bigger.

 

[950483]

Your luck, you will say that to a guy that is just as big or bigger.

If I'm lucky I might. When I do, I think I'll be able to tell by their reaction without them having to say as much. I was saying to someone only this evening that I needed some kind of hand-held device like a geiger counter, but for detecting large penises, as it's not really possible to tell when everyone walks around in public fully clothed.

 

[redpubes]

If I'm lucky I might. When I do, I think I'll be able to tell by their reaction without them having to say as much. I was saying to someone only this evening that I needed some kind of hand-held device like a geiger counter, but for detecting large penises, as it's not really possible to tell when everyone walks around in public fully clothed.

Haha, I meant one of the sexual harassers would not have been deterred from their actions because you did not scare them away.

You do not know how to tell if someone has a large penis? Large feet, large hands... oh wait, those are not accurate indicators.