How to Deep Throat & How Important is It Anyway?

[AlteredEgo]

Thanks to everyone for their thoughtful suggestions. I am definitely going to be trying to tweak my technique in future "practice sessions" It's all about the process, no? :wink: I'm going out tonight to buy some flavored condoms to put on a dildo I have for a little solo practice later.

And who the hell is Heather Brookes???

Singular. There is only one of her. Heather Brooke. No "s". She. Is a first-class cocksucker extraordinaire. Google her. She's the best.

 

[SurferGirlCA]

Well, not having a gag reflex for sure helped me a lot the one time that was really tested, but that's not really "advice". As others have mentioned, learning to control your breathing is really important, because then you can just get into a rhythm with the thrusting of the guy. Also, make sure he understands he can't just shove it down your throat and then stop and hold it there indefinitely (your windpipe comes in handy for other things, too... like breathing).

Yes, practice on other items, not only so you can improve, but also so it won't be as nervewracking the next time you're with a big guy. Nerves activate anxiety and that leads to tension and tension isn't helpful for sexual exploring (I think Yoda said that first, right?). Well, except for sexual tension, but you'll be past that by then.

Once you're more accomplished with the basics, it's really great to get on your back on the bed (ottoman, table, whatever) with your head slightly over the side. That helps take the curve out of your throat, which will let him really get into thrusting and (trust me) he will remember you for that. :wink:

Finally, attitude is a big part of it, too. Even if you're not completely successful the first few times, if the guy knows you really enjoy even making the effort, there's no way he's not gonna enjoy watching you try. Just relax and go for it!

 

[novice_btm]

I know a lot of people will tell you that just sucking the head is fine because that's where all the nerve endings are.... personally I think that's crap...

I'm with you on that. I've never understood the whole, "oh, just the head is fine," thing. I love feeling it fully buried, with lips around my base. And nothing pisses me off more than someone who insists they want hung, yet can't even manage my barely above average one.
[Yeah, a buddy of mine told me that he was only "helping (me) out, cuz (I'm) 'cute', cuz really, (he) only does hung." Later I just thought, "gee thanks, so why can you only manage 2 inches of me before you choke, if you're looking for a thick 8?" ]

 

[D_Cliddorne Clitknocker]

I gotta side wtih most of the guys here. If your only going to go down 3 or 4 inches, yeah I'm greatful and if feels great, but not as good as someone taking int all. It's similar to swallowing, you don't have to swallow, and my orgasm is great without it,but.......it feels much better when you do. One girl has done both swallow and deep throat and let me tell ya guys and gals, she has a special place in my heart. On a side note, if you can't deepthroat, proper use of the hands stroking while you suck and getting the cock slippery and wet can push me over the edge much like a deepthroat.

 

[razlovescock]

I know a lot of people will tell you that just sucking the head is fine because that's where all the nerve endings are.... personally I think that's crap. I want to feel lips moving up and down the shaft of my cock.

Yeah, totally...my head's really sensitive anyway so if it gets too much attention it hurts, and if a guy's just sucking on the end like it's a lollipop or something I end up just getting bored with it.. onder:

 

[keeks]

Thanks so much to all of you for your advice, or just sexy banter.... I like that just as much (if not more :wink: ). I actually have been practicing deep throating a dildo wrapped in a cherry flavored condom, and have been surprised at how I was able to get it in there for at least short periods of time. The consensus seems to be that it is largely psychological, but it does also feel good. I've decided to keep working on my technique, but also have a little more confidence when it comes to my current abilities. Hopefully the next time a 9" dick is in my throat, I won't be thinking about technique, but I'll just really be gettin off on it as well as giving pleasure. :tongue:

 

[keeks]

I know a lot of people will tell you that just sucking the head is fine because that's where all the nerve endings are.... personally I think that's crap. I want to feel lips moving up and down the shaft of my cock. I've never been with a girl who could get all of me in her mouth without gagging, I know they're out there (and guys, you don't have to tell me that you're able to do this, it won't impress me ) but so far no luck. It's not a big issue for me.



[edit] oh, and incidentally... I've practiced deep throating before on bananas/hot dogs. I didn't think it was that hard. Just a matter of relaxing the gag reflex. I can get a whole large banana (as big as me) down my throat without choking myself without much difficulty. I've done this for the same reason I've tasted my own cum and tried auto-digital-anal penetration before... I wouldn't ask a girl to do something that I found to be horribly unpleasant myself.

So sweet and thoughtful. Oh, nineinch, why do you feel it necessary to torture all us gay dudes so mercilessly? God will punish you for sure!!!

 

[B_NineInchCock_160IQ]

So sweet and thoughtful. Oh, nineinch, why do you feel it necessary to torture all us gay dudes so mercilessly? God will punish you for sure!!!

If there is a God, He's got a big long list of things to punish me for. I doubt He'll even get around to "tormenting the boys on LPSG".

 

[scanjock8]

If there is a God, He's got a big long list of things to punish me for. I doubt He'll even get around to "tormenting the boys on LPSG".

either that, or said torture is actually your God-given calling, for which you will be richly rewarded;-)

on its own deep throat doesn't do as much for me as other methods--i'm more of a stroke/suck/upper-dick guy. at the end of the day, what really matters most is an all-over servicing from someone that gets off on sucking my cock. deep throat, stroking, slow, fast, tip, gagging, slapping, slobbering--i need it all...

 

[keeks]

If there is a God, He's got a big long list of things to punish me for. I doubt He'll even get around to "tormenting the boys on LPSG".

Seriously, there is no God, but He will still send you to Hell for making all the gay guys on this site crazy after you and your dick. Have some mercy for another human being... our passion after your dick is the same as your passion for Pamela's pussy or whatever you find hot about her...

 

[B_NineInchCock_160IQ]

Seriously, there is no God, but He will still send you to Hell for making all the gay guys on this site crazy after you and your dick. Have some mercy for another human being... our passion after your dick is the same as your passion for Pamela's pussy or whatever you find hot about her...

who's Pamela?

 

[honkysladder]

I've perfected my deep throating skills because of porn queen Jill Kelly.

I religiously watched a 3 minute clip of her deep throating. If I find it, I'll post the link.

A few tips:

• It is essential that you want to do it.
• You must be relaxed.
• Take your time.
• Remember to hold your breath

Hope this advice helps.

 

[jody]

as long as she's a good dick sucker in general it's really not important for her to take my penis into her throat. but oh how wonderful that feels. it's definitely better. i don't find it overrated at all.

 

[flashback]

Every girl should know how to deep throat like that girl from

http://www.ideepthroat.com/