It's still early, so I might not be able to pose this question as best I can...but here it goes. How would you describe...gay/lesbian feelings... A) the discomfort of the opposite sex or B) the attraction of the same sex. For me, I think its A) the discomfort of the opposite sex. I say this as a guy, the idea of kissing a guy or having any kind of oral sex is not so appealing. But the idea of having sex with a woman is even more anxiety driven. (Almost as though I have been a sex abuse from a woman..but the memory has been repressed) Any comments would be most appreciated.