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Theres a guy that I've communicated with over the past several years and just got to meet recently, and there is defiantly a part of me that thinks there could be more to our relationship, and would like there to be, but I don't know how to be like I want to date you without freaking him out, which is made slightly more complicated by the fact that he could be in a relationship though he didn't talk about it.
Anyone have any ideas on how to find out how he feels about me, that wouldn't ruin the possibilities of having a continued friendship? which I'm more than fine with if thats all we can be, as it would really sadden me to loose him as a friend.
I would say that I have "L" feelings, but I know this adds a whole other dimension of complexity, and I have learned from relationship explosions in the past that its best to avoid the "L" word until you konw for sure that they feel the same way, as if its just a fuck, or they just wanna be fuck budds, or they just want to date, throwing the "L" word out there is a very BAD things to do.
Anyone have any ideas on how to find out how he feels about me, that wouldn't ruin the possibilities of having a continued friendship? which I'm more than fine with if thats all we can be, as it would really sadden me to loose him as a friend.
I would say that I have "L" feelings, but I know this adds a whole other dimension of complexity, and I have learned from relationship explosions in the past that its best to avoid the "L" word until you konw for sure that they feel the same way, as if its just a fuck, or they just wanna be fuck budds, or they just want to date, throwing the "L" word out there is a very BAD things to do.