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Hm, been wondering what y'all do that makes you wanna PM someone.
Currently I'm mostly interested in women, I sometimes go back and forth between them, but I only get guys in PMs. Is it better to make the first move? (for both genders, I mean.)
I mostly share pics to see if anyone is interested, but as I said earlier it mostly attracts guys only.
 

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Hm, been wondering what y'all do that makes you wanna PM someone.
Currently I'm mostly interested in women, I sometimes go back and forth between them, but I only get guys in PMs. Is it better to make the first move? (for both genders, I mean.)
I mostly share pics to see if anyone is interested, but as I said earlier it mostly attracts guys only.

I think the "standard protocol" around these parts is to interact in the forums with the person first. Especially the ladies. A cold call DM is not cool - unless their profile indicates they are open to it. Men are a different breed. Most are open to a DM chat. That said, check their sexual preferences first. Men that are 100% straight may be taken aback.
And one final piece of advise: Do NOT send an unsolicited dick pic to a lady. They've seen tons of them. ;)
 

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I think the "standard protocol" around these parts is to interact in the forums with the person first. Especially the ladies. A cold call DM is not cool - unless their profile indicates they are open to it. Men are a different breed. Most are open to a DM chat. That said, check their sexual preferences first. Men that are 100% straight may be taken aback.
And one final piece of advise: Do NOT send an unsolicited dick pic to a lady. They've seen tons of them. ;)

I'm making a slight correction to my original advise after looking at your profile pics: While I still say never DM without a "cause"... Maybe tell them you just moved in next door and need a cup of suger... :)
 

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Hm, been wondering what y'all do that makes you wanna PM someone.
Currently I'm mostly interested in women, I sometimes go back and forth between them, but I only get guys in PMs. Is it better to make the first move? (for both genders, I mean.)
I mostly share pics to see if anyone is interested, but as I said earlier it mostly attracts guys only.
For me, i will PM a guy if he looks interesting or open to chat about sex. It certainly helps when they are hot like you. For me its about making a good connection. PM if you want to chat more x
 

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I wont usually just look for the "hottest" or "biggest" dude to message. I look for common ground and go from there. That said, i will literally talk to anyone who hits me up. Im polite and its the right thing to do. For the OP. Go find who ur looking for. Say hi, go from there. Ive never been cursed out on here for saying "hi" to either gender. Go for it man.
 
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Men are typically more confident, aggressive, and straight forward on the arena of sex.. You’ll probably always hear more from the male side than the female side. Plus there are less ladies on here.

that said. Can’t blame the guys who have reached out.
 
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I think the "standard protocol" around these parts is to interact in the forums with the person first. Especially the ladies. A cold call DM is not cool - unless their profile indicates they are open to it. Men are a different breed. Most are open to a DM chat. That said, check their sexual preferences first. Men that are 100% straight may be taken aback.
And one final piece of advise: Do NOT send an unsolicited dick pic to a lady. They've seen tons of them. ;)
Especially the ladies. A cold call DM is not cool
 

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I think the "standard protocol" around these parts is to interact in the forums with the person first. Especially the ladies. A cold call DM is not cool - unless their profile indicates they are open to it. Men are a different breed. Most are open to a DM chat. That said, check their sexual preferences first. Men that are 100% straight may be taken aback.
And one final piece of advise: Do NOT send an unsolicited dick pic to a lady. They've seen tons of them. ;)
Especially the ladies. A cold call DM is not cool
@WilliamG, One thing that gets overlooked a lot is this. We're on a website that's dedicated to the appreciation of men, men's dicks in particular. Why should women not be DMed directly? They can hit the delete button just like anybody else. I understand that it's not cool to DM dick pics that are unsolicited, but this special treatment for female members is absurd.
 

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Especially the ladies. A cold call DM is not cool
@WilliamG, Why should women not be DMed directly? They can hit the delete button just like anybody else. I understand that it's not cool to DM dick pics that are unsolicited, but this special treatment for female members is absurd.

It's not absurd. You have no idea how many DM's they would get per day if it was open season. Visit the the Ask a Woman section. Read some of the pinned topics. Then perhaps ask your question there.
 
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