How To Find Your Next Partner..?

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I know that many here have regulars they've hooked up. For those here that actively pursing new playdates... How are you looking/meeting?

Yes there are the classic "out in the field" real connections... But for many of us it starts online. So what tools are you using?
For me it's (living in a suburb of LA:

Adam4Adam, Silverdaddies, Sniffies, and sometimes even here.

How about y'all?
 
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I'm fairly new to hooking up, but have only started out online so far - I haven't ventured out into bars or clubs to start things off in person yet. That said, I've had some decent luck with Sniffies and Squirt.org, chatting, camming, and hooking up with men from both. I even had a hot experience with an escort a friend set me up with from rent.men!
 

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I'm fairly new to hooking up, but have only started out online so far - I haven't ventured out into bars or clubs to start things off in person yet. That said, I've had some decent luck with Sniffies and Squirt.org, chatting, camming, and hooking up with men from both. I even had a hot experience with an escort a friend set me up with from rent.men!
Didn't think about Squirt. Hmm... Checking it out.
 
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At home I use fabguys, nakedmates and occasionally scruff. When I travel, especially in the US, I use adam4adam, as it has an easily set-up visitor section, though I hate the ads. Never had any luck on sniffies, they all show as anonymous in my area.
 
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What for? I don't have the need to right now.
This is great : when one begin a relationship because he/she needs it, the most probable is the relationship end bad.
We should love ourselves more, enjoying the life..
If someone appears it is great, if no, the same
 

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Why not use the old fashioned way: meet people in a social setting? Like a club, bar or even just out and about...make conversation. Just a thought.
If that works for you then I'm pleased for you. As a closeted bi, as I'm sure many others reading this are, it's just not practical to go to clubs & bars, let alone devote the time. It probably sounds very shallow, but I'm not looking for bi relationships or romance, just sex, and that is easier to find online. I'm afraid it's the world we live in.
 

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I could be looking for romance with a guy or girl, thing it's just doesn't happen and I'm fine with it also not looking for a one night stand, even though I know I could get them easily.
 

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If that works for you then I'm pleased for you. As a closeted bi, as I'm sure many others reading this are, it's just not practical to go to clubs & bars, let alone devote the time. It probably sounds very shallow, but I'm not looking for bi relationships or romance, just sex, and that is easier to find online. I'm afraid it's the world we live in.
Agreed. Im also bi. I guess you have to use what works. Have fun!
 
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If that works for you then I'm pleased for you. As a closeted bi, as I'm sure many others reading this are, it's just not practical to go to clubs & bars, let alone devote the time. It probably sounds very shallow, but I'm not looking for bi relationships or romance, just sex, and that is easier to find online. I'm afraid it's the world we live in.
I'm with you 100%. And luckily every other closeted bi man I've talked to feels the same. But the hosting... It's always the hosting... Without a paper trail. ;)
 
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I'm with you 100%. And luckily every other closeted bi man I've talked to feels the same. But the hosting... It's always the hosting... Without a paper trail. ;)
Yes very true. There are lots of complications to get over to meet up.
 
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I'm with you 100%. And luckily every other closeted bi man I've talked to feels the same. But the hosting... It's always the hosting... Without a paper trail. ;)
I've never been able to host at home, so have relied on the other party being able to, or using a neutral location. Fortunately, there seems to be plenty of guys out there happy to accommodate for a few hours of fun.