How to get a hook-up

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by D_Aita_Fallis, Feb 1, 2011.

  1. D_Aita_Fallis

    D_Aita_Fallis New Member

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    Although I'm not a virgin, I find it hard to find a girl for the night to take home. I just don't know what to talk about or how to get her to see that I wanna have sex with her and make her feel the same way. For all you straights out here (nothing against my gays) but how do you go about getting hook-ups. Please ladies, I would love your input too!:biggrin1::confused:
     
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    First of all, do not worry about her seeing that you wanna have sex with her. Most women know that if I guy is breathing he wants to have sex. Be yourself and at the end of the night just ask her to come home with you. Really, us guys make this way too complicated, a lot of women want to screw as much as guys do.
     
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    Absolutely. If the chemistry is there, just ask if they wanna come over for a drink. She says yes or she says no. It's just a "drink". lol
     
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    oh! i get it now! thx
     
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    LaFemme,

    I don't think that the big bulldawg thinks we are serious. It has to be more complicated than what we have suggested. What were we thinking... :biggrin1:
     
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    Ha ha! But absolutely true on both counts.
     
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    No i'm serious!!! I really get it. I mean it does make sense when you put it all together. I'm not myself which was a big problem and kinda did complicate things too much, i just never really thought it was that simple. But trust me, i definitely understand what you're saying. Seriously.
     
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    - Talk about interesting things that appeal to the majority.

    - Would you approach a girl you don't find attractive? Would you talk to someone who has the aura of a loser? If you approach her she knows you're interested.

    That is just to address your question. Details come with experience.
     
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    no no man, you dont wanna hook up with random girls.. be outgoing make friends. get to know them a little and let them know you're open to sex... or friends with benefits.. but only say that if you actually wanna be friends.. you know hang out, watch the game, have a beer, play cards, etc.

    much easier. much more consistent nookie, less drama, and you might make a legit friend or two out of it. which if you're good in bed and yer just platonic, they may refer their female friends to you.
     
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    wow....................that actually seems like a better idea. goddamn, i think that's my plan for now on!!! :) thanks matt!
     
  11. Not_Punny

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    Oh, for goodness sakes, get yourself a blow-up doll. Less trouble.

    Girls are people... PEOPLE. We are not receptacles for your semen. :rolleyes:

    Get interested in the PERSON.
     
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    As others have said, it is a much better plan to only have sex with people you actually are friends with first. Most females consider this a necessary preliminary.
     
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    also i wouldn't advertise you're a virgin to every gal.. unless they ask something in conversation like "so when's the last time you had sex".. its all about confidence.. just be confident in what you do, how you kiss, how you touch, and nobody will care.
     
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    If there were one guaranteed method, someone would make a fortune teaching that to men. Everyone else already hit it on the head. All I can say is, "Use the force Luke" when the time is right, you'll know it and so will she.
     
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