How to get a j/o buddy

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by tanstaafl16, Feb 5, 2012.

  1. tanstaafl16

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    Is craigslist safe??

    How does one approach the conversation? ... Not sure if I feel comfortable with friends, rather have strangers or a vague acquaintance
     
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    Good question, I have been thinking about doing the same thing. I really want to try jerking off with someone for the first time, but I dont know how to find someone that wants to do the same thing.
     
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    I'm with you guys. I think it could be fun, but would want it to be really discreet if I ever got the balls to try it.
     
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    I've met people on Craigslist. It's intimidating the first time you meet with them, especially if you go over to there place. The good thing with here you can see who's in your area and if you want to talk to them first you can. Where as Craigslist they care for games, either we are or we aren't, no bullshit. As far as Chicago I've had no problems
     
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    I'm pretty much the opposite of the guys above. I'd have to trust the guy big time to get that intimate with him, so it has to be with a close friend.
     
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    There are jack clubs in most big cities like Atlanta Jacks here in Atlanta. Try a Google search. I went to one such jo event and didnt really enjoy it. A lot of guys but sort of clickish. They hung around the younger guys or two black guys. I moved around but didn't get any attention. I Just sat down and jo'd myself.

    I see on Craigslist where guys want to get together for JO and more.... maybe I'll try that.
     
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    I guess you could start off by asking someone if they wouldn't mind giving you a hand this weekend...and go from there:smile:
     
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    Is Craigslist safe? You run the risks you always do when meeting strangers, right?

    Personally, I've always wanted to be friends with my jack-off buddies. It makes things way less weird for me. Hang out, play some video games, spank it if the mood strikes.
     
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    ask! I know...easier said than done but that is the answer.
     
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    My guess is that Craig's List is not as safe as some sites where you can see a profile of the person and often some pics. You certainly don't want to invite a Craig's contact to your place. He might want to rob you or worse. There are some sites where I think you could have good luck. You might want to meet in a public place first. You might consider leaving your wallet in your car if you go to his place. Gain some confidence in him with some back and forth chat before you meet. Decide on what you want to do and what the rules are. Ask if he has any STDs. Be prepared to say NO if necessary.
     
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    CL is safe if you use common sense, and weed out the 90% of people's posts that are BS. If the guy sounds sketch over email: He probably is in person.

    Most guys I've ended up meeting off CL, prescisely for a j/o buddy, I've chatted with on MSN or Skype before meeting. And ideally cam2cam if they have it. The very rare instances where I didn't chat and cam before hand... I've usually been disapointed.

    Don't believe anyone who says they don't have pics. Its 2012.
     
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    Well I started jacking with my best mate, and from there our 2 other best friends from school joined us, and we still do it these days. I don't know about jerking with a random i met online.
     
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    I can understand not wanting to ask friends. It took me a year before I built up the courage to ask my best friend, but now it's great! It's made our friendship stronger. If you don't have a best friend you don't feel comfortable with then I'd suggest Adam4Adam maybe.
     
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    Hey tandtaafl16 Im in NYC too looking for a JO buddy
     
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    I'd like one too..but it isn't easy haha
     
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    I'm constantly looking for a regular jack off and frot buddy. Even though I'm in Los Angeles, at 60 it's not easy to find. So my hand and dick just keep hooking up themselves.
     
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    I went on Craig's List asking for a guy to jerk off while I watched. I connected with a guy, married, ex-Navy, and it turned into much more...once a week.
     
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    I would love to have some jerk off buddies near me
     
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    I would be happy to jack w u buddy! If I lived close enough.
     
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    where do you live
     
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