How to get better at bottoming ?

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I love the idea of being fucked by men bigger and more muscular than me but when it comes to looking for hookup I am very picky and sometimes chicken out because of the process of having to get ready and being super tight. I have some toys but I dont really use them much. How did yall get better at taking bigger dick ? I would love to take a bigger cock eventually (cade Maddox size).
 
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I love the idea of being fucked by men bigger and more muscular than me but when it comes to looking for hookup I am very picky and sometimes chicken out because of the process of having to get ready and being super tight. I have some toys but I dont really use them much. How did yall get better at taking bigger dick ? I would love to take a bigger cock eventually (cade Maddox size).
It’s like going to the gym. You need commit to a schedule, even if you don’t feel up to it on a particular day. Your sphincter is a muscle that needs to be trained. Use a medium sized butt plug for an hour or so every other day for a week or two. Consistency and repetition are key. Also put it in while you’re cruising for a hook up online and your hole should be ready to go by time the cock arrives.
 
It’s like going to the gym. You need commit to a schedule, even if you don’t feel up to it on a particular day. Your sphincter is a muscle that needs to be trained. Use a medium sized butt plug for an hour or so every other day for a week or two. Consistency and repetition are key. Also put it in while you’re cruising for a hook up online and your hole should be ready to go by time the cock arrives.
do you start increasing size of dildos or do you just keep the plug the same size so you are loose enough to take bigger?
 
do you start increasing size of dildos or do you just keep the plug the same size so you are loose enough to take bigger?
Small butt plugs are pretty useless and tend to slip out of your ass unless you’re super tight and never been fucked before. Medium butt plugs are good at training your sphincter to relax and take a dick. The point is not to get loose, but to train an involuntary muscle to take something coming the other way. Of course you can keep going progressively bigger, but I think that’s more for guys that get off on being stretched by toys rather than everyday ass training to prepare for getting fucked.
 
Start with finger fucking, adding more as you loosen up. Then progress to toys of increasing girth. Vibrators are very effective at relaxing your hole to open.

As stated, practise makes perfect.
 
You need to work at getting your diet and cleaning ritual down as well. Fibre is key and knowing your bowel clock.

My suggestion is to rinse out well a couple of hours ahead. Then rinse out quickly 20 mins before.
 
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