How to get bf into edging?

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Hey LPSG guys and ladies. I apologise if this thread is in the wrong forum. I wasn’t sure where to put it.

Ok so like the title suggests I am interested in getting my bf of several years to try edging. I think it’s really hot and it’s pretty much the only kind of porn I watch these days. I just google solo male edging videos. Anyway I don’t know how to get my bf interested in this and hoped for some advice.

I think I would also like to incorporate a bit of bondage with this (maybe) but am not really fixated on any ideas in particular... very open to suggestions etc.

Thanks :)

-M
 

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Have you tried asking him? That's all one of my fuck buddies had to do i already cum a lot and she wanted to try edging me, i lay back and let her do her thing, my only job is letting her know when to stop if I'm getting close, longest I've gone was about 2hrs, it can be a little painful in a good way, cock gets incredibly hard and balls i find get a little tender like their swollen or heavy but the orgasm is like no other and if you're into cum he'll likely blow a load like you've never seen before
 

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I dunno what you are asking really. A bf of several years, sounds like you could just say “hey let’s try this”

Let’s break it down to what you like about it. Then that gives us some direction about why your bf should do it: to please you, and perhaps enjoy the same type of pleasure

Let’s just say, you enjoy the sexual energy/tension followed by the intense climax. I think you have to “sell” those concepts to him. I’m trying to imagine my gf having to sell me on something sexual and I can’t. It would be the other way around. I think for me I’d approach it with her as a favor. “Just try it for me, please.”

I would try to anticipate roadblocks too. Maybe he’s just a grump? Maybe he’s into his routine? Maybe it would take too long for his taste?

Plenty of options: you could offer rewards, you could build up the benefits, or you could just set aside enough sexy time and try to introduce it as you go

The fact that you are in question signals to me that you can’t just be like “hey, I wanna try edging,” which in my opinion, is where you want to be, but we are never where we want to be, are we?

No worries. He should be into it. If not, enjoy the videos
 
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Hey LPSG guys and ladies. I apologise if this thread is in the wrong forum. I wasn’t sure where to put it.

Ok so like the title suggests I am interested in getting my bf of several years to try edging. I think it’s really hot and it’s pretty much the only kind of porn I watch these days. I just google solo male edging videos. Anyway I don’t know how to get my bf interested in this and hoped for some advice.

I think I would also like to incorporate a bit of bondage with this (maybe) but am not really fixated on any ideas in particular... very open to suggestions etc.

Thanks :)

-M
If he's not into it, he's not into it. Why are you interested in trying to control him?
 
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Not sure why you two wouldnt just simply try it, bondage or no bondage. I cant imagine that he wouldnt like it, Ive always edged, even before I knew it was called edging, just discovered it was the best way to climax by far.
 

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Talk to him about it. I think most guys are pretty open to trying things like this.

I never considered that a man edging would be a turn on for a woman. I like edging, but its because its pleasurable for me and the longer I go the more intense my orgasm is. If a woman asked me to edge for her I would totally be in to it, though, I might get so turned on by the idea that I might not be able to control myself.
 

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Talk to him about it. I think most guys are pretty open to trying things like this.

I never considered that a man edging would be a turn on for a woman. I like edging, but its because its pleasurable for me and the longer I go the more intense my orgasm is. If a woman asked me to edge for her I would totally be in to it, though, I might get so turned on by the idea that I might not be able to control myself.

I agree, on all points, including if it was me with a woman i might not be able to hold back.
 
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Just ask him. I doubt he says no to you stroking him for a longer period of time. Tell him it turns you on & you might be surprised how compliant he becomes.
 
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you’d have to facilitate the edging, i suppose; but he’d probably be flattered!
 

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Hey LPSG guys and ladies. I apologise if this thread is in the wrong forum. I wasn’t sure where to put it.

Ok so like the title suggests I am interested in getting my bf of several years to try edging. I think it’s really hot and it’s pretty much the only kind of porn I watch these days. I just google solo male edging videos. Anyway I don’t know how to get my bf interested in this and hoped for some advice.

I think I would also like to incorporate a bit of bondage with this (maybe) but am not really fixated on any ideas in particular... very open to suggestions etc.

Thanks :)

-M

Maybe try mutual bate sessions and teach him how?
 
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Hey LPSG guys and ladies. I apologise if this thread is in the wrong forum. I wasn’t sure where to put it.

Ok so like the title suggests I am interested in getting my bf of several years to try edging. I think it’s really hot and it’s pretty much the only kind of porn I watch these days. I just google solo male edging videos. Anyway I don’t know how to get my bf interested in this and hoped for some advice.

I think I would also like to incorporate a bit of bondage with this (maybe) but am not really fixated on any ideas in particular... very open to suggestions etc.

Thanks :)

-M
My wife asked me years ago. Said it turned her on and it did. Once I saw how much so it became a regular part of our sensuality. My advice. Just suggest it and tell him your desires. He will gladly do it
 

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Hey LPSG guys and ladies. I apologise if this thread is in the wrong forum. I wasn’t sure where to put it.

Ok so like the title suggests I am interested in getting my bf of several years to try edging. I think it’s really hot and it’s pretty much the only kind of porn I watch these days. I just google solo male edging videos. Anyway I don’t know how to get my bf interested in this and hoped for some advice.

I think I would also like to incorporate a bit of bondage with this (maybe) but am not really fixated on any ideas in particular... very open to suggestions etc.

Thanks :)

-M
This is perhaps the first time I've seen a female discuss having their BF edge for them. Maybe it's because many have been doing it for so long that we take it for granted. If you're feeling a bit giddy about bondage, lightly restrain him do some edging to him.
 

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I dunno what you are asking really. A bf of several years, sounds like you could just say “hey let’s try this”

Let’s break it down to what you like about it. Then that gives us some direction about why your bf should do it: to please you, and perhaps enjoy the same type of pleasure

Let’s just say, you enjoy the sexual energy/tension followed by the intense climax. I think you have to “sell” those concepts to him. I’m trying to imagine my gf having to sell me on something sexual and I can’t. It would be the other way around. I think for me I’d approach it with her as a favor. “Just try it for me, please.”

I would try to anticipate roadblocks too. Maybe he’s just a grump? Maybe he’s into his routine? Maybe it would take too long for his taste?

Plenty of options: you could offer rewards, you could build up the benefits, or you could just set aside enough sexy time and try to introduce it as you go

The fact that you are in question signals to me that you can’t just be like “hey, I wanna try edging,” which in my opinion, is where you want to be, but we are never where we want to be, are we?

No worries. He should be into it. If not, enjoy the videos

offer to buy dinner after.
 
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In my experience, most guys are very interested, and excited, when their GF's or wives initiate sexual interest in them, even if it is a little outside their comfort zone. So, I guess, the question is have you talked with him about it? If so, I guess he has not been receptive to the idea. If he wasn't interested, you probably have little hope. My only suggestion would be to try and persuade him to edge himself in front of you, thus he isn't giving up control, which is my guess as to why he isn't interested. Maybe that will help him ease into it. If he still isn't interested, honestly, he might not be the right kind of sexual partner for you. If you haven't talked to him, why not? You know him better than any of us, and if you can't have an honest conversation with your own BF about sex, that is an entirely different discussion.