My new love (been together for about 3 mos) loves to give oral as do I. However, she told me likes to swallow too, but she hasn't taken me to that point yet. I am also the first man she has ever had orgasms through penetration with, and she has multiple ones at that. My feeling is, that since she can get off on me, she doesn't want to miss out on hers, so she doesn't suck me completely off. I really want to enjoy her swallowing me. I've tried holding her head down on me when I get close, but that just seems to signal to her to mount me. Anyone have any ideas how I can let her know that I want her to finish me without her feeling like she isn't going to get hers??? For what its worth, I am usually good for 2 orgasms, so I don't feel like she would be missing out on anything if she swallowed the first one. Any ideas???