How To Get Over Being Small

[DeclanBrent]

To all 'small' men (roughly 5in or below)
How do you deal with the humiliation heaped on those classed as 'small'? Whether that's by family, friends or past girlfriends?
I've had plenty of humiliation, particularly from male friends who have seen me in the showerr after sport events, or at the urinal or when sharing rooms on holidays away with my group of male friends. A couple of instances where I've slept with women connected to my circle of friends where it's got out and led to lots of sly comments and small dick references,
I find it incredibly hard to deal with and even sought therapy to help me overcome - to no avail.
Also, I refuse to be cuckolded or enjoy humiliation. Just wanting to hear from guys who've had the same experiences as the above, been deeply affected it, but have worked through it and come to accept yourself.
Thanks

 

[ronin001]

I always try to look past a persons limitations, if that person is born / accidentally developed an affliction. I know many short people with hott GF / wives and great jobs, who worked past their born limitations, in a society where people are 3-8 inches taller than them People who are born with defects; or had an accident that causes the loss a limb ( arm - leg ) , some do give up ; but many lead as normal a life as they can. GF / Wives children Etc.

When I read yet another my 5 inch penis makes it hard to cope posting, I think as always what if these guys had real afflictions, that existed 24 / 7 ? Your penis is covered 97% of the time, so you can lead a relatively normal life 97% of the time, count yourself as blessed. Blind people are blind 24/ 7.

Solutions"

When you go to the bathroom use a stall, no one can see you. If you use a urinal, never use one next to someone. At sporting events, shower and get dressed. If someone is sneaking a peek, here is what you do. Ask are you Gay ??? A straight / Str8t / curious / voyeur guy will 99% of the time even if he is looking will zip up and exit ASAP. If the person looking is Gay; and if you ask the question with an attitude, he will immediately zip up and move along, as he has no way of knowing if you are about to start swinging. ( swinging with your hands, not sexually )

Your women problem, first thing increase your oral game to to 10+. Second thing stop dating friends and friends of friends Third, learn to use what you have to the best of your ability

I have alway said small guys need their own support group, something patterned after AA.
Hi my name is Jeff and I have a small penis

 

[englad]

Try not to conflate your penis with the entirety of your masculinity. There's so much more to it than that and there's a lot more worth to a man than penis size. It's not even the only penile variable out there, there are some beautiful and ugly dicks out there in a range of sizes. Case in point with the big v small dick, here are two well known cases:

The first guy has a big dick, the second guy has a small dick. 99.9999% of the gay/bi male and straight/bi female groups are gonna go for the second option. It's about the overall package not a single body part.

My main advice would be, focus on looking as good as you can and be as active as you can. And develop your confidence as much as you can. The main thing is don't let the insecurity get in the way of good sex. Personally, I'm large, but I remember dating one guy who had a small cock (more below average on girth than length), who had gorgeous eyes, gymnast's body and was kind and intelligent. The insecurity about his penis size (and constant mental comparisons) is what ruined the sexual experience, despite my telling him repeatedly that I didn't care.

 

[bwhip1011]

So why would you post on a site that focuses on the better equipped man? Let’s put it this way, what woman in her right mind wouldn’t want her partner to be well off financially? Same thing with being well hung. The reaction of a woman when she pulls out a large penis is priceless. But since you will never know that feeling I suggest that you focus on qualities you do have. Maybe as you become more secure, knowing that you are falling short in that area, you will let your woman enjoy the pleasures of a well endowed man. And it doesn’t have to be a cuckold situation where you are compared and humiliated. We all have weaknesses and we all have strengths. Use them accordingly.

Well now, boy boy and I do mean boy! This is because your mind has never made it past the 7th grade locker room, has it? I've had plenty of cocks bigger than yours. Difference is they're attached to men with kind souls, big hearts, and oh yeah a brain, too. You're truly showing many underlying insecurities here. I mean what was your "real" reason for responding to this thread? It certainly wasn't to support the OP. Perhaps to draw attention to yourself, which has been my experience with those such as yourself over the past nine years I've been here. I feel sorry for that poor woman sucking your dick, but perhaps she's as dumb as a box of rock as well. You're not all that. You're not even some of that. I've never ever been with a woman, but if I had to pick between you and a woman it'd be the woman.

 

[flooble]

it is only shameful if you allow it to be.

THIS

Anyone who mocks the size of your dick has done you a favour by announcing loud and clear that they are no longer deserving of your attention.

 

[englad]

So why would you post on a site that focuses on the better equipped man? Let’s put it this way, what woman in her right mind wouldn’t want her partner to be well off financially? Same thing with being well hung. The reaction of a woman when she pulls out a large penis is priceless. But since you will never know that feeling I suggest that you focus on qualities you do have. Maybe as you become more secure, knowing that you are falling short in that area, you will let your woman enjoy the pleasures of a well endowed man. And it doesn’t have to be a cuckold situation where you are compared and humiliated. We all have weaknesses and we all have strengths. Use them accordingly.

This thread has fuck all to do with you bragging about your genitalia. If you wanna brag about your dick, go to a thread about that. It's about a guy trying to overcome insecurities about being small. Plus most of the women I know, whom I've discussed this with, specifically do not like large. Fuck knows why they'd be lying to a gay man about this.

PS - Rogaine can help with receding hairlines. You can thank me later. It can't cure being a cunt though.

 

[INCUBUS]

newest forum added to LPSG main page

"Ask Ronin001" or " As Explained by the Ronin001"

 

[meatal_head]

There is no real getting over it. I have been using locker rooms for over 40 years. Zero privacy in most. In my college dorm in the 80's most guys walked the halls to the shower nude rather than take clothing. Yeah soft I'm hung like a hamster but I have to live with it just like if I had any other smaller than most body part. I don't try to hide it, it is only shameful if you allow it to be.

 

[flooble]

I did peruse the links. It seems mixed at best.

Only to someone--yourself, for example--who is deeply vested into hanging on to his fantasy that all women want baseball bats in bed. Those of us who do this fucking radical thing where we actually goddamn listen to women? We understand differently.

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

I resent that. But let’s assume, for the moment, I was “bragging”. Your telling me that I am in the wrong place? A website dedicated to the appreciation of larger sized men...and I am the one in the wrong place? lol ok if you say so.

Also, rogaine only works on a specific type of hair loss called ‘male pattern baldness’. It has no effect on a receding hairline. But thank you for the attempt at advice. I would like to return the favor and state that the best way to reverse gynecomastia is in the early stages. You’ll thank me for it later.

You're definitely in the wrong thread. And there is zero evidence that this site is "dedicated to the appreciation of larger sized men". Any search engine hit on LPSG returns the link with:
"The Large Penis Support Group is an adult community that promotes diversity among its members, founded in 1999."

I don't see anything there excluding anyone.

If you've been reading threads here since you joined in 2016 you certainly know there are plenty of men with average and small penises here. And there are plenty of men who have issues with themselves, regardless of their size.

This thread happens to be one of these men with one of these issues. If you need to see big cock, or want to discuss your penis, go look in another thread, there's plenty to be found, and plenty of room for more. Just stop shitting all over this one, please.

 

[flooble]

I've already told you why. You are incapable of comprehending how women are socialized to interact with men. Fuck off.

 

[flooble]

Except they are universally desired. That is the point of the analogy. It’s just a matter to what degree. Some women more than others.

Do... do you understand what the word universal means

do you understand that desire for big dicks isn't universal

I fucking give up. I feel sorry for the women in your life that you, quite clearly, never listen to. Welcome to my ignore list.

 

[bwhip1011]

To all 'small' men (roughly 5in or below)
How do you deal with the humiliation heaped on those classed as 'small'? Whether that's by family, friends or past girlfriends?
I've had plenty of humiliation, particularly from male friends who have seen me in the showerr after sport events, or at the urinal or when sharing rooms on holidays away with my group of male friends. A couple of instances where I've slept with women connected to my circle of friends where it's got out and led to lots of sly comments and small dick references,
I find it incredibly hard to deal with and even sought therapy to help me overcome - to no avail.
Also, I refuse to be cuckolded or enjoy humiliation. Just wanting to hear from guys who've had the same experiences as the above, been deeply affected it, but have worked through it and come to accept yourself.
Thanks

Hello there, Brent. I see here that many have responded with a lot of great comments and advice.

I wish that I had more to add and I'm sorry that one troll attempted put a damper on serious question. I'm quite frankly suprised and disappointed that moderation didn't step in, but that's that. In any event I'm glad you reached out and hope that you've found it helpful overall. * Brett

 

[Squirrel1]

Oh good Lord. Not another SPH thread.

 

[Squirrel1]

Did you not read the part about 'I don't enjoy humiliation?'
Get your sight tested, dickhead

Okay we'll play it your way. Let's let the thread go and see what it degenerates into.

 

[WilliamG]

To all 'small' men (roughly 5in or below)
How do you deal with the humiliation heaped on those classed as 'small'? Whether that's by family, friends or past girlfriends?
I've had plenty of humiliation, particularly from male friends who have seen me in the showerr after sport events, or at the urinal or when sharing rooms on holidays away with my group of male friends. A couple of instances where I've slept with women connected to my circle of friends where it's got out and led to lots of sly comments and small dick references,
I find it incredibly hard to deal with and even sought therapy to help me overcome - to no avail.
Also, I refuse to be cuckolded or enjoy humiliation. Just wanting to hear from guys who've had the same experiences as the above, been deeply affected it, but have worked through it and come to accept yourself.
Thanks

Perhaps include a pic or two in your profile. I agree this forum has seen way too many SPH threads that were only instigated to arouse the OP with the SPH issues. But you are truly asking about how to handle the confidence (for lack of a better word). That is a fair question. I'm 6" fully hard. But I'm just 3" soft. Not porn star material. I did learn that most men and women in reality don't care. It's the full experience that makes it. If you can learn good orgasm control, you will impress way more than cock size will. I rarely dated within my friend circle. I thought I was not the "stud" that some of the others in the group were. That allowed me go off in a more low pressure environment and have good sex. Any thoughts?

 

[INCUBUS]

1st rule! NEVER listen to Wally!

2ndly. Just be happy with what you have and learn how to use it to your advantage. Lots of foreplay finger work and a good tongue will help. Never feel shamed or embarassed with what you have. Grass is always greener on the other side. Some women complain about men of endowement just as much.

 

[Squirrel1]

Thanks @INCUBUS[/USER
PS: is Wally for real?

Unfortunately yes.

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

Re: wally
I reported his post and urge anyone else who views LPSG as a SUPPORT group do the same.

Fantasies of cock wars are one thing. Trolling a thread where a member is actively seeking and receiving advice for an issue affecting his life is quite another.

This behavior needs to stop.

I'm certain we'll see the usual claim that I'm "stalking" him, that the post was actually intended to help, etc. we've seen this time and again.

It needs to stop. If it's acceptable, then site administration needs to explain how and why this type of disruption in a support group is allowed.

 

[flooble]

Let’s put it this way, what woman in her right mind wouldn’t want her partner to be well off financially? Same thing with being well hung. The reaction of a woman when she pulls out a large penis is priceless.

If you would ever actually listen to women, you would find out that the vast majority give not a single fuck about size, and furthermore, are not necessarily pleased when they find out someone is larger than average. That is what women actually say. Not the deluded fantasies of 99% of the men here.