Only to someone--yourself, for example--who is deeply vested into hanging on to his fantasy that all women want baseball bats in bed. Those of us who do this fucking radical thing where we actually goddamn listen to women? We understand differently.
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Only to someone--yourself, for example--who is deeply vested into hanging on to his fantasy that all women want baseball bats in bed. Those of us who do this fucking radical thing where we actually goddamn listen to women? We understand differently.
You're definitely in the wrong thread. And there is zero evidence that this site is "dedicated to the appreciation of larger sized men". Any search engine hit on LPSG returns the link with:
"The Large Penis Support Group is an adult community that promotes diversity among its members, founded in 1999."
I don't see anything there excluding anyone.
If you've been reading threads here since you joined in 2016 you certainly know there are plenty of men with average and small penises here. And there are plenty of men who have issues with themselves, regardless of their size.
This thread happens to be one of these men with one of these issues. If you need to see big cock, or want to discuss your penis, go look in another thread, there's plenty to be found, and plenty of room for more. Just stop shitting all over this one, please.
For the record my cock is smaller than yours but by all accounts not small, just average.
I think you have some valid points regarding working with the hand your dealt, but your hubris and arrogance kills the effectiveness and your credibility on the points you make in your initial reply. In turn you come across like a penis enhancement advertisement.
I would guess you're probably correct in that cock size is a visual stimulus or a plus in most of your experiences. Both sexes use flattery in the mating game to help play up each others strengths.
Personally I think cock size is fairly subjective to each person, owners and judges. The constant among all women I have ever had sex with is they don't want an arrogant, egotistical, dead fuck with a horse cock, nor any guy regardless of size (big or small) trying to knock their ovaries into the next room in the pursuit of hitting some mythical location in the women's cervix that they read about on line. Again back to @flooble 's point regarding listening to what woman say, as opposed to not what you heard on a Pornhub clip.
Are there women that like horse cocks? Probably so. Are there women that prefer pinky dicks? Probably so. Are there women that rate cock size so far down on the what she wants or they just don't care. Probably so. Are there women that prefer women because they are not cock-centric? Probably so.
The same source you sited probably three articles down, says contrary to what your link says. Again more subjective stuff with an MD wrapped around it.
What is the average penis size?
Women have just learned that it’s a super easy way to fellate your ego. Ever consider that maybe they’re telling you what you want to hear?
I tried telling him that. It is, of course, impossible that any woman would ever have been anything other than 100% honest with him. We know this because, interestingly, women allegedly tell him what he already believes, which is self-evidently true.
For someone who keeps saying what a great listener you are, you sure don’t seem to be listening to me. I never said anything about women wanting baseball bats in bed. I simply stated what women have said and have made clear to me from personal experience. It is not a crazed wild eyed fantasy of critical need. I said they view it as a bonus. Very few women I’ve been with have stated that it’s a deal breaker. And while the particular girl I am thinking of definitely got excited for size, the dealbreaker for her was if the man was small. It wasn’t a deal breaker if it was average. Another woman couldn’t even handle a large man vaginally length wise and openly stated it. But explained that it was is visually stimulating and physically a turn on to see and feel the size orally, she would become drenched from giving head. Mind you these two are the outliers. She explained that she like to be dominated sexually and that to her a large penis is a very masculine and dominant trait and the excessive size was something she had to submit to. But to most women it’s not that critical. But it certainly is a bonus and a turn on. Again, this is what women have said to me. A man cannot rely on having a big dick to please a woman. It’s simply a tool that is part of the process. However, a bigger tool does make some things a little easier and better. For example being able to make a woman feel completely filled up whereas some smaller exes are unable to reach certain areas or stretch out enough. The good news for smaller gents is external stimulation is what many women need. Again though, I will argue that I size gives you and advantage. In that situation, I angle in a way so as to take advantage of my length having my shafts slide back and forth over her clit with every stroke. And you are completely neglecting the sexual confidence a well endowed man typically exudes. Women can be very aroused by a man that has a sexual confidence that size can bring. A sexual confidence that smaller men struggle to develop as evidenced by the very existence of this thread/agrgument. The bottom line is EVERYTHING else being equal, the far majority of women, if not all, will choose the man with a big dick. Is conditioning from society? Is it the male influence on society that makes women perceive it this way? Maybe so. Is it an evolutionary desire deep in a woman’s mind? Maybe. Is it fair? I guess not. Lifevisn’t fair. I don’t understand why it bothers you so much. Has your gf had a bigger ex? Has she cheated with a hung guy?
I don't have a girlfriend? And it's clear from that sad little attempt at what you think is a dig that you have entirely crawled up your own ass here.
Says you. That is not, in fact--and it is so fucking tiresome to repeat this--what actual women say, in aggregate.
Here's the thing. Do you get fucked by people with penises? No you do not. So why are you an expert on what the people who like getting fucked with penises actually think? It seems to me that the people who like getting fucked with penises are the experts on what kind of penises they like.
AND GUESS THE FUCK WHAT
You are wrong. You do not listen to women. You do not even pretend to understand that for many women, sex with cis men is a dangerous event that can go wrong for them at any minute, and that--plus being socialized from birth to please men and butter them up--leads to a lack of honesty about what they say to cis het/bi men about all kinds of things.
or to make it simpler for your tiny little brain:
Listen to women and accept that your stupid fantasies about dick size are nothing but projection.
Says you. That is not, in fact--and it is so fucking tiresome to repeat this--what actual women say, in aggregate.
Here's the thing. Do you get fucked by people with penises? No you do not. So why are you an expert on what the people who like getting fucked with penises actually think? It seems to me that the people who like getting fucked with penises are the experts on what kind of penises they like.
AND GUESS THE FUCK WHAT
You are wrong. You do not listen to women. You do not even pretend to understand that for many women, sex with cis men is a dangerous event that can go wrong for them at any minute, and that--plus being socialized from birth to please men and butter them up--leads to a lack of honesty about what they say to cis het/bi men about all kinds of things.
or to make it simpler for your tiny little brain:
Listen to women and accept that your stupid fantasies about dick size are nothing but projection.
Yes you did say this already. I have a big dick. If a woman doesn’t say anything, I am not damaged. It doesn’t bother me. My “fragile ego” is not bruised if a woman makes no comment. It’s the smaller men that are always asking the question does size matter. It’s not the guys with big dicks that ask it.
So when I ask no question, but see a reaction to a woman seeing my size or feeling it for the first time...she’s lying to me. But when you guys go poking and asking questions about size mattering, they are telling you the truth when they say size doesn’t matter right? So why do guys with smaller dicks get the truth when they ask that question but a woman acts out a lie when she sees a well hung man?
I've already told you why. You are incapable of comprehending how women are socialized to interact with men. Fuck off.
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Cock size is not the be all and end all, its the performance that counts, and big cocks don't always have the ability to perform well. Less emphasis on size - and actually not all women like to be split apart with a huge penis - more attention to foreplay and penetration skills.
When I see a huge dick and say "wow" its not that I'm unpressed but wondering if it will live up to its own big image.
When I see a huge dick and say "wow" its not that I'm unpressed but wondering if it will live up to its own big image.
Where did I say anything about excluding anyone? I simply said this site is regarding the support of large penis...it’s in the name of the site. That being said, there is a diversity here that I appreciate. And I am not putting anyone down. I am offering my point of few. My opinion. I am not attacking anyone one personal. I am not throwing insults. In fact, it is the contrary. I suppose you don’t believe is free speech. But I do. I am allowed my opinion. And I am allowed to express it. And I support anyone that directly opposes my opinion and I support their right to express it. You see, that is what freedom of speech means...freedom of speech means you support the expression of opinions that are contrary to yours. If you only support the expression of opinions that are the same as yours, that isn’t free speech.
of course you are allowed your stupid, patriarchal, delusional opinion.
That doesn't mean it has to be respected. We all know you didn't actually read the page of links I gave you courtesy of Fade. Go read.
If anyone is being insulting and offensive it is the people attacking me. I am not throwing personal insults or telling you have a tiny brain. What it seems like is that you’ve had some bad life experiences regarding size and maybe I am coming off as cocky or arrogant. I apologize. I am not personally targeting you in any way. There is the society message that big dicks are better, small dicks are funny. And then there is just the personal reactions, comments, desires, etc. of women over the years. All I am saying is that it isn’t opinion that it is better to have a bigger dick than an average or small dick. Maybe it’s conditioned from men’s projections. Guess who first told me I had a big dick? A woman. I didn’t really know. She was the one that went on about it. Then a different girl said something. And so on and so on. It isn’t the be all end all. You can be a great lover without it. I love going down on my girl. She comes more from that right now than anything. You don’t have to have a big dick for that. But she also loves just reaching down and holding it while she is laying in me. She gets kick out of it laying down her leg when we are naked and I’m soft. She’d love me regardless but I love being able to fill her big dick fantasy.
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You are coming off as another tiresome straight cis man who flat-out refuses to listen to what actual women actually say in aggregate about actual penises. That is what you are doing. You are outright dismissing what actual women have to say.
Stop doing that and I'll stop lambasting you for it.
I absolutely did read it. Again. You are incapable of having an argument without personal attacks? There is more things in life than dick size dude. So you don’t have a big dick. So what? You’ll never know that reaction. That excitement. It’s definitly hot. It’s definitly a thrill. I’m sure being Tom Brady is awesome. But I’m not bitter about it. Make the best of your life. Dick size isn’t your strength. Play to your strengths.
Man, you just love telling on yourself, don't you? It says a lot about how much you want to ignore what women actually say that your assumption is that I have a small dick.
I don't. I am attempting--although it's clearly utterly futile--to pierce your delusions. So, again: fuck off.
I don't. I am attempting--although it's clearly utterly futile--to pierce your delusions. So, again: fuck off.
You are giving me a bunch of links to comments about on a message board where you don’t know who is who, people’s bias simply because it’s on a size related site, and the fact that it isn’t scientific in anyway. Add in the fact that the comments seem to me to be mixed at best. How do you propose to draw a conclusion from it? A tally of responses. Or would you like to cherry pick the responses adding more weight to some posts because they support your view while dismissing others because they don’t agree with what you want it to be. At least I gave you a link to a published study. You want to argue it’s methods, that is fine. At least it is scholarly work on the subject. What really matters is how you treat a woman. Can you provide for her family? Not every woman can have a man who’s head is bigger than a doorknob. All I ever said is that women look at us a bonus. Like when you get upgraded to first class.
I have no delusions regarding you. I get it. To you, size doesn’t matter.
Except that flying first class is universally desired. Whereas big dicks are categorically not but you haven't listened to a single word I've said anyway.
And, again, I don't have a small dick, and it really reveals a lot about you that you keep harping on that assumption as though it's going to have an effect on me.
Except they are universally desired. That is the point of the analogy. It’s just a matter to what degree. Some women more than others.
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