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Ok, so I pretty much know how this is gonna pan out, but I just want some other advice.
I am only 20 years old. Probably way too young to even know what true love is. But the closest I've ever come thus far was from a guy who I've known for a few years and my first real relationship. He was older than me by 2 years, and a closeted frat guy. It was a perfect relationship by my standards because I don't really have the kind of family that's accepting. Neither does he. Both were content having a relationship that was based on us, not family or other people.
Anyways, we were dating and he told me he loved me. I said it back, it was out there. I put my heart on the line to be broken, something that doesn't come lightly for me, but I did it for him.
I went to stay with him for a week during the summer (he went to another state for college, but was only an hour away from where we both lived). When I got there, his sheets weren't on his bed...I didn't see anything wrong. The day after I got there, he went into work and I was just chillin around his house. There was a knock on the door. I asked who it was and he said "it's me sexy, and I'm horny. Open the door." So I opened it and asked who he was lookin for, assuming he had the wrong door. He said the name of my bf and I was crushed. I asked the guy when the last time he hooked up with my bf was and he said it was Sunday, which was the day before I got there. Apparently, when he fucked my bf that sunday night and into monday morning, he came all over my bf and the sheets, which is why they were in the washer.
So, I left before he got back from work. He called me to ask where I was, if I had just run out, and I told him that _______ stopped by so I left. He said sorry and all that jazz, but I can't do that. So he and I were finished.
This was last summer and I'm still not over it. I can't watch Wall-E because the first time I saw it was on a date with him. I can't listen to certain music because it's what was on his sleep playlist that we'd listen to as we fell asleep. I hear certain songs on the radio and they make me incredibly emotional.
I suppose I just wanna know if this is normal. How did you get over your first love? How did you get over someone you loved cheating on you? I keep trying to tell myself I'm over it, but nobody seems to match up to him. I go on dates, and they're fun or whatever, but I don't want to settle. I'm not trying to be melodramatic and saying nobody will ever compare, or I'll be unhappy forever, but what do I do to get over him?
Thanks for reading/replying guys
I am only 20 years old. Probably way too young to even know what true love is. But the closest I've ever come thus far was from a guy who I've known for a few years and my first real relationship. He was older than me by 2 years, and a closeted frat guy. It was a perfect relationship by my standards because I don't really have the kind of family that's accepting. Neither does he. Both were content having a relationship that was based on us, not family or other people.
Anyways, we were dating and he told me he loved me. I said it back, it was out there. I put my heart on the line to be broken, something that doesn't come lightly for me, but I did it for him.
I went to stay with him for a week during the summer (he went to another state for college, but was only an hour away from where we both lived). When I got there, his sheets weren't on his bed...I didn't see anything wrong. The day after I got there, he went into work and I was just chillin around his house. There was a knock on the door. I asked who it was and he said "it's me sexy, and I'm horny. Open the door." So I opened it and asked who he was lookin for, assuming he had the wrong door. He said the name of my bf and I was crushed. I asked the guy when the last time he hooked up with my bf was and he said it was Sunday, which was the day before I got there. Apparently, when he fucked my bf that sunday night and into monday morning, he came all over my bf and the sheets, which is why they were in the washer.
So, I left before he got back from work. He called me to ask where I was, if I had just run out, and I told him that _______ stopped by so I left. He said sorry and all that jazz, but I can't do that. So he and I were finished.
This was last summer and I'm still not over it. I can't watch Wall-E because the first time I saw it was on a date with him. I can't listen to certain music because it's what was on his sleep playlist that we'd listen to as we fell asleep. I hear certain songs on the radio and they make me incredibly emotional.
I suppose I just wanna know if this is normal. How did you get over your first love? How did you get over someone you loved cheating on you? I keep trying to tell myself I'm over it, but nobody seems to match up to him. I go on dates, and they're fun or whatever, but I don't want to settle. I'm not trying to be melodramatic and saying nobody will ever compare, or I'll be unhappy forever, but what do I do to get over him?
Thanks for reading/replying guys