So I'm talking to this girl. She wants to get to know me before we try dating or anything like that. Well maybe dating is the wrong word. Like, boyfriend girlfriend typ thing. I have already told her I want to go out on a date with her (had to cancel due to things out of my control). But anyways, How do I get to know her, and let her get to know me? I mean, there has to be more than just "what things we have in common". Or at least I hope so. I have very little in common with most people let alone females! I Love METAL! hardore metal head, yet i love rap music too. I'm athiest, I love playing magic the gathering, I like video games and I play basketball. So yea, girls with stuff in common with me is insanely rare. she kinda knows my interests already, and she is still interested in me, so I at least know, when she finds out I play magic the gathering, she wont dump me for being a nerd. So yea, getting to know somebody is more than just knowing thier interests. (I hope). So what can I do to know her better? We don't talk on the phone much, we work different shifts so its hard to do that. (although next week I will be on the same shift as her). I want to take her out on some dates, but i mean, you dont get to know somebody through watching a movie. I don't know, is it just like, spending time with somebody and seeing how well you get along? Making sure your not like, crazy or something? I don't know. I was not priveledged enough to have more than 1 meal a day (which was my free lunch at school), let alone, the ability to wash my clothes get a haircut and take a girl on a date. I literally don't know a fuckin thing, so please help me out!