how to get your guy to go down on you

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  1. alisuesue

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    ladies or gents sometimes you may want to ask your partner to go down on you but don't know how exactly to say it , not knowing how they are going to react. need advice:smile: :redface:
     
  2. DC_DEEP

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    That's never been an issue for me, so I hope this helps. Think for a moment of what a guy could say to you, that would convince you to go down on him... then use a similar strategy to get him to go down on you. Some don't agree with me, but I think an honest, common-sense approach is always best.

    Hehe, and if he declines, because he thinks it's gross... remind him it's not too gross for his cock, so it's not too gross for his tongue.
     
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    stick youre big dick in their face.....always works for me!
     
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    Whisper your request into his ear. That usually inspires a little enthusiasm.
     
  5. RoyalT

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    I just put my dick in her mouth. Or between her tits. Chicks dig being dominated. A rape fantasy is actually pretty common.,,watching a programme where a study has been done.

    Just grab his head and say lick me out/eat me out...or say 'lick my pussy'...in one of those sexy moaning voices.
     
  6. DC_DEEP

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    LOL I have no doubt it works for you, Indie... but the original poster, poor alisuesue, may find that maneuver just a little difficult... I don't think she has a big dick...
     
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    I've never had that problem and I honestly can't imagine not wanting to go down on a girl.

    I say pin him down and sit on his face and MAKE him love it.
     
  8. Ethyl

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    I like the way you think.
     
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    I'm a little slow picking up hints so the direct aproach works best.
     
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    For me just asking would be fine. Any girl that takes the initiative like that is a turn on.
     
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    If you preface your request with, "I love it when you...", you'd be surprised how much you can get a person to do.

    In romance, especially in bed, it's all about telling the other person that they're the center of your universe. You give, and you get.
     
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    From high school on I went down on every female I had sex with. There has never been a time I didn't want to. Don't know what could keep you guys from wanting to go down on your gf's. If it's too nasty to eat I am not gonna stick my dick in it. lol
     
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    I tell my bitch to SUCK MY DICK, jk.. I just ask if she will, and I typically return the favor.
     
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    Tell him no lick, no stick.
     
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    Fortunately enough for me, I rarely have to ask. While I'm usually the one to initiate sex, my boyfriend will go down on me at the drop of a hat.

    In response to the question though, experience tells me that girls respond to subtlety while guys respond to blunt requests and visual prompts. For example, I have sat with my legs spread waiting for my boyfriend to come home and when he walked in the door I said "Your face, here, now!" That works for most guys (yes, even the timid ones). For girls however it can require more finesse... Unless of course you yourself are a girl in which case the same approach will work. :biggrin1:

    Brit
     
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    My personal method ... so far it has never failed to work.

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