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My male therapist is straight and married but his desire to know about my sexual likes and dislikes seems to satisfy some desire in him and is more than a therapist simply asking relevant and appropriate questions. I have felt that hearing my sexual stories is titillating for him. I have wondered if he is curious and privately gets turned on by homoerotic anecdotes.
I have thought about how I can confirm for myself if he has a bi side. Once I told him about an ex wanting to rim and he lingered on the details of the encounter and used the terminology several times. I felt that we were both turned on discussing this sexual episode. Have you ever experienced this with your straight therapist? Maybe they also have a bi side that they can connect with when treating gay or bi clients. I know therapists have to ask probing questions about our sex lives but sometimes one can tell if their prurience is more than just needing to know the relevant facts and veers into the realm of erotica and getting off.
I have thought about how I can confirm for myself if he has a bi side. Once I told him about an ex wanting to rim and he lingered on the details of the encounter and used the terminology several times. I felt that we were both turned on discussing this sexual episode. Have you ever experienced this with your straight therapist? Maybe they also have a bi side that they can connect with when treating gay or bi clients. I know therapists have to ask probing questions about our sex lives but sometimes one can tell if their prurience is more than just needing to know the relevant facts and veers into the realm of erotica and getting off.