How to improve sensation during anal sex ?

[Kanashi]

very interesting discusión, I love to top and bottom as much, but since the aids pandemic I had to refrain my self from practicing unprotected sex, I survive because of it.
I never learn to enjoy cuming inside sone one while wearing a condom that sedation was gone, no matter how much I like the guy, I had to pull out and masturbate and cum outside, I always fear the people weren’t honest about the status, even though they says their were negative, I figure if the wanted that bad they gonna have to do it that way, or not at all, some were understanding but must were not. and now there is PreP . I still no being able to cum inside a guy, I guess I’m predispose and got use to cum outside, and as much as I adore my husband, he dies not a bottom 100% top

Is your husband okay with you not cumming inside him? Or does it frustrate him?

 

[BulgeGuySD]

Is your husband okay with you not cumming inside him? Or does it frustrate him?

not really he is okay with me not fucking him. He is mostly a top .. so only few times I had fuck him it seems like he does not really enjoy bottoming specially because I’m in the thick side even a finger hurt him I have being very careful and patient with him.. he makes it up by giving me very hot amazing blowjobs and love to swallow my cum . and sharing it with my by kissing me he is a good fun sex partner ..

 

[AllDixNeedLuv69]

It's always good to have a pain free experience. Maybe a change in thrusting motion could help. As soon as you break in pull out and reinsert. And do it to a rhythm

for me --being a bottom---pushing out relaxes the hole-- so i dont push out---i do tighten my asshole andinside as much as i possibly can to keep it good for the top--

 

[AllDixNeedLuv69]

This is my thought as well. An experienced bottom will know how to grip your cock and even milk you with their ass. As a bottom, it really took me time to learn how to do this, but once I did I realized that I could (basically) control when the top cums.

Sounds like you enjoy having your tip stimulated. Might a blowjob be better for getting you off?

alot of bottoms think their job is to lay there and be fucked--it takes both members to make it pleasurable for all

 

[AllDixNeedLuv69]

I been strugling to relax enough to take a penis and here i read all the techniques and skills a bottom use to enjoy every inch of the p33nor!! I feel like such an gullible amateur that have a long road ahead.

Yet i enjoy to read all this wisdom on the matter.

part of the relaxing is trusting the guy you are with---throw caution to the wind as they say---trust him and lube is best friend in this matter

 

[AllDixNeedLuv69]

"** my partners have mostly been ass-virgin straight men​

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From my experience so far with different partners, once the penis penetrates the hole and the tip goes past the anus , it feels hollow like a cave inside and I have no sensation from it."​

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Someone's been lying to you then... if they're claiming to be "mostly virgin" yet have arseholes like Aircraft Hangers, lol.​

you see these porns from site gay4pay where these guys supposedly never been with a guy at all---but during sex they deepthroat a cock like its nothing---i am about8 inches myself and have hadstraight friends suck me but they never dee[throat me as their gag reflex kicks in...then anal sex is even funnier--seeing the bottom getting fucked and within 2 minutes he is moaning telling the top to fuck his ass harder---the few straight guys and a couple gay ones never say that when i am inside them--they usually moan and say slow down for a while and sometimes i get off after a while of fucking slowly ---its a few times later when they get used to dick inside them that they want it more assertive--

 

[voyeurfan]

you see these porns from site gay4pay where these guys supposedly never been with a guy at all---but during sex they deepthroat a cock like its nothing---i am about8 inches myself and have hadstraight friends suck me but they never dee[throat me as their gag reflex kicks in...then anal sex is even funnier--seeing the bottom getting fucked and within 2 minutes he is moaning telling the top to fuck his ass harder---the few straight guys and a couple gay ones never say that when i am inside them--they usually moan and say slow down for a while and sometimes i get off after a while of fucking slowly ---its a few times later when they get used to dick inside them that they want it more assertive--

Unless they are super submissive , never had them ask for more or faster, they usually just moan , say that it hurts and to slow down , or just tense up and sit there quietly trying to take the whole experience in.
So yeah, porn is really not a good indicative of how things are in real life , regardless of their proclaimed sexuality.

 

[1373263]

they usually just moan , say that it hurts and to slow down , or just tense up and sit there quietly trying to take the whole experience in.

IME, something like this. Guys that haven't played with toys previously will express pain; guys that hae played but never taken a cock will be quiet or express discomfort and then some moan. After a couple of times some moan in pleasure and some start to thrust back as they realise what feels good and act on it.

 

[jbf78]

I know I have an anal orgasm when my dick gets very sensitive and tingling after I cum frm jerking off