I have a "friend" and we have been keeping in touch on social media during lockdown. I'm horny and want to go to his place but am too embarrassed to suggest. I have never been to his home. I would love a massage or watch porn but could not suggest it. He is a withdrawn type so might panic. Any suggestions about a nice way to initiate such a discussion or have him suggest it?
I think there is some solid advice above.
One thing that I am curious about, is why you put friend in quotes. Can you tell us what sort of relationship you currently have with him?
Also, keep in mind that being cooped up is driving a lot of people sexually crazy. I've been reading a lot of posts from people who are sexually starved, and fixating on one person in particular who was normally not really on their radar, or unattainable for some reason. It's like when you smoke a joint, and crave a weird food and you just. have. to. have. it.
And echoing a word of caution. He's withdrawn. You've never been to his place. It sounds a bit..off. Maybe there are better choices, of people that would be more eager and willing? It seems like it would be easy to make a wrong step with this guy.