How to introduce big member?

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  1. D_happyclap

    D_happyclap New Member

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    On three different occasions with three different women I've been messing around when, as we are both are both prepared to take the next step, I presented my big dick. In these cases, the women say they couldn't take my size and end any chance of sex before it began. My big dick is scaring women away! Any tips on how to present/prepare women for your big member so they aren't running away when your member comes out?
     
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    You could say "let me just put the tip in".
     
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    be gentle, talk to the woman, build trust with her, before the deed. It may also help you out if you get her to the point where she is really horny, and ready for some fun... Fun out what drives her crazy..
     
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    First time I was with a guy who was larger than I was used to...I saw it as a challenge..but hey..that is just me...it had a very happy ending for both of us :)
     
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    That's my kind of lady! :smile:

     
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    Do what I learned to do... Either get closer to them relationally before trying to have sex, or don't let them see it the first time... Make the lights dark or whatever.
     
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    This works. Then be very gentle and have a lot of foreplay beforehand.
     
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    read your post on warming women up to it. What are your measurements? You may have just run into 3 women who are not used to a big dick and, less likely, aren't actually able to accommodate you. Lots of foreplay will help a woman prepare physiologically. Most women can accommodate more than they realize, but they have to be prepared mentally as well. Keeping things dark is one option, but she is probably going to get a hand on it at some point before you get inside her. Speak confidently but gently about how it is going to feel. And of course go very slowly and gently to start. Always ask for feedback on how she is feeling and how it feels for her... Best of Luck

    ~T
     
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    Well, you enjoyed the big sex. In most of the cases, it lead to a good end for both partners.
     
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    Turning lights down is unfair trickery, try telling her up front that you're "scary big" and that you don't like it that way, wish you were smaller, but alas... so you stick to hand jobs and bj's. Letting her know she'll be scared of the size, and telling her that you are aware of it and don't want to do anything that's frightening, puts the reigns in her hands. She'll probably fantasize about getting stuffed, but fear getting stretched/torn. So letting her play her way, should do it, in addition to the advice above.
     
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    We need pictures before we give advice! :biggrin:
     
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    only pull half of it out. :p
     
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    Before hand say btw I have a large penis and its scared some women off, so they are prepared for whats to come. Also use lube, take your time, be patient, dont just ram it in.
     
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    The best line I had for such cases was "Well, no one said you have to take it all". Sort of an adaptation of the aforementioned 'let me just put the tip in then".
     
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    You could tie it up in a really thick ribbon with a bow on top. :D Proper presentation is nearly all it would take. ;) (Good advice in this thread - figured I would poke a little fun)
     
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    Good... Look at the one I've just posted in my gallery, hee hee hee, pretty scary stuff eh? LOL!
    Aquastorm427
     
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    Tell her that you're going to go down on her until she's ready for you -- even if that means making her cum 3 times with your tongue until she's super wet.

    And then you'll be very gentle.

    And I'd believe your whole story more if you had pictures.
     
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    i've never been rejected, asked to stop or take a break, but never flat out rejected. I don't think i'm super thick though, so maybe it's a girth concern.
     
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    "I've got a friend I'd like you to meet."
    "Say hewwo to my wittle friend."
    "Speaking of penises..."
    "This is all I've got, hope it'll do."

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    Dress it up in a little three piece suit.

    Have it call ahead.

    Draw a smiley face on it. :smile:
     
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    Rig a confetti popper to your zipper and wait for your member to make it's own entrance.....

    Not really having any evidence to go by (pictures...ahem), I would say that just dont make a big deal about it, I'm pretty sure that if its really that big, no introduction is necessary. I doubt that by the time a woman is all in the mood to have sex she's going to get up and run away if its too big.
     
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