How to jack off with a straight friend

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  1. D_Marquard_Messypants

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    Hey guys I have this really hot and sexy friend who is really open to anything yet I wanted to jack off with him but he declined because the first bastard who got to do it with him freaked him out so he told me to forget it about its not worth it. I told him his experience does sound a bit weird so how should I convince him without ruining our friendship? By the way im really unsure of my orientation
     
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    find a friend more willing
    it will take time with that friend if it ever happens
     
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    Not sure. Me and my best friend did it and one day I just kind of asked him if he would like to try it. I have a story if you want to read it.
     
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    id looooove to read it!
     
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    How old Are You? since you feel unsure about your sexual orientation
     
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    See if you can talk to him about how the other guy freaked him out. My guess is that the guy did it in a way that challenged his self-identification as "straight". Anything like "You must be at least bi or you wouldn't be doing this" would be too much of a challenge for a lot of guys. Maybe he was just too "affectionate" about it, If you can reassure him that you're not going to do anything like that, rather than a businesslike guy-to-guy: "Hoh, hoh, us blokes just gotta do what we gotta do, togther if need be," you're in with a chance.
    Well that doesn't help. The more sure you are of yours, the more you can have the confidence not to disturb his. Ask yourself a few questions like
    "Could I fall in love with a guy?"
    "If I had to choose between a plain woman and a handsome man, which would I choose?"
    "Does anything about men as a sex disgust me?"
    "... women...?"
    You don't have to give yourself a label, but you certainly need to know what you want.
     
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    Thanks that is some great advice I really want to fuck around with guys but I want to be married to a woman and have a family and as I am still a virgin Im not sure if I am 100% gay or straight but I feel more attraction to guys.
     
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    Am in with the rest, please post
     
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    Excellent advice. Would not like to take the chance of loosing a good friend.
     
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    I've never had the inclination to jack off with a "straight" friend but as I have aged and now enjoy cocks and cum as much as pussy, I love to do it with bi, and/or gay guys....but straight just doesn't seem to be right for some reason. If you're talking about seeing another guy who you think is hot jerk off, I get it....but only if you spy on him without his knowledge, or he's bi or gay. If he's straight....it'll blow (no pun intended) what you may have now with him. Keep it a fantasy and to yourself....
     
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    #14 xmarksbreakdownx, Jan 21, 2011
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    I'm glad someone enjoyed it.
     
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    a buddy of mine got married a couple years ago, a few weeks before the wedding his fiance left town with her mom and friends for a girls weekend, On saturday nite a bunch of his buddys went bar hopping nothing to crazy, he and I ended up at my place, i went to bed he crashed on the couch, about a hour later, i could here a porno on the tv, he had gotten into my porno stash,and had called his girl to tell her where he was, and that he was laying on the couch beating off, thinking of her, I stood and watched a few secounds and thought what the hell...I sat down near him, took out my cock,and was watching the porno,it was a big dicked guy in a M/F anal scene I didn't last long.. I soon busted a nut, he finished his conversation with his girl, hung up gave his meat a few hard pumps and let a big load fly,He we laughed about it that night but have never repeated the act
     
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    i think it's all about having both guys on the same page, inside and out. If one is sending signals that causes the other guy to feel unsure, unsafe, or "unequally vulnerable" then I don't see it happening. If both guys feel an equal sense of safety, vulnerability, curiosity, and sexual adventure in exploring the moment- then there's a chance.

    With semi-strangers or new aquaintances in certain circumstances, this becomes much easier because they're less to "lose" if things go wrong. Others have said that beer and porn are great equalizers in the scene- and i agree. One helps to reduce the fear, anxiety, and to give an out "dude it wasn't me it was the beer!" The porn naturally helps to set the mood.

    One says something small, the other needs to counter with something small that doesn't completely close the door on the line of conversation. One grabs his crotch, the other should mirror the action. Little steps to making sure that both guys are moving forward.

    With good friends, It's rare that these things will happen spur of the moment- you gotta make little investments and keep it easy going and without consequence so that both guys feel like they're not on the hook for doing something wrong or messing up the friendship.
     
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