how to: JO amongst friends

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  1. brotherofdjango

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    how do you propose jacking off with your timid friend without freaking them out and ruining your friendship?
     
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    Why would you want to JO with your friends?????? Especially one you describe as timid?
     
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    If he is timid, start out with doing other non-sexual things together.
     
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    There's no one answer.

    It's more about how you approach the problem. I say approach the problem by moving eer closer to the topic. But never push it. Always wait for him to respond to what you say. Be prepared to drop the subject at any time if he's not responding.

    Make sure you look him in the eye when you say these things, that's a good way to draw out timid people, to find out what they're thinking. They have to react to you when you're looking at them.
     
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    Frankly, if they don't want to, you don't.

    You've got to test the waters first, and ease towards that situation, but be prepared to back off if they simply don't want to.

    For example - see what they're willing to talk about. Will they talk about porn with you? If no, then they probably don't want to be in any remotly sexual setting with you.

    If they will talk about porn, make it a fairly common conversation topic, and sooner or later you can suggest you watch some porn that you think is great. Then it should go fairly naturally from there - it's pretty damn hard to watch good porn without getting horny enough to want to whip it out and start jerking.

    Note that although this is one of my biggest fantasies, and I just gave you advice, I've never gotten further than talking about porn with any of my friends. Mainly because they simply don't want to go any further than that, and I totally respect that.
     
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    Club them over the head with a blunt object? :p
     
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    invite him over for a bunch of margaritas....use lots of cuerve gold and throw a viagra pill in the blender.
     
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    Dude, if you find an answer please post it. There are millions of homos out there who would love to know.
     
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    tekken, i tried that but it didn't work, jk.

    it gets to the point where we are both sitting there watching a movie or tv with our hands down our pants the whole time. he usually makes stroking motions too. but idk if i should just whip it out or ask him at that point. we are both shy so no one wants to make the move...
     
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    man, just say something if u watch the movie "damn, it would feel great if i could shake my bottle now" or "man, any problems with it if I shoot a load" ...just see his reaction, most likely he'll understand and migh join in :)good luck.
     
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    Brother - if you are both watching movies with your hands down your pants, stroking, you're 90% of the way there, aren't you? He wouldn't be doing that much if he weren't open for more. If I were you, the next time you've each got your hands down your own pants, I would casually pull that beautiful rod of yours out and casually stroke it. If he doesn't respond in a minute or two, casually put it back as if it's no big deal. I'm telling you, if he's into clothed mutual masturbation, it's all but certain he wants to do it unclothed, but is too timid to say so. You can't live your life by waiting for things to happen to you - you have to seize opportunties when you want them. Go for it!
     
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    420/porn
     
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    Artful Dodger, you are such a sick puppy but I love you anyway. :biggrin1:
     
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    Alcohol and porn.
     
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    i guess i had the privilege of growing up in that prepubescent age with my friends. Any porn we got our grubby hands on we watched till the tape got warped in the VCR. Being that age there was no taboo about jerking off together. Just one rule. Never get any jizz on the new sectional couch. My friend was a latch key kid so we had alot of time after school before his mom got home so that gave up ample time for porn. fond memories :)
     
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