how to keep a semi

Discussion in 'Underwear, Clothing, and Appearance Issues' started by welliam hung85, Mar 19, 2008.

  1. welliam hung85

    welliam hung85 New Member

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    what tips do you have for getting erections w/o touching yourself? kegels perhaps
    how do you keep yourself from getting a full on stiffy?

    when I'm completely flacid its hard to see a bulge :( , when I'm 3/4 hard it looks "huge" and fully errect is obviously embarassing. 1/2-3/4 erect is what I'd like to stay when girls are around... but when I say "time for an erection" to my pants, he's all like "no way jose". Then when I do get it up 2 half-way and I catch girls glancing it makes me feel embarassed (although I do enjoy it) and instead of going down it gets harder!!!

    I don't have ED by the way I can get it up fine in private. I've heard that treatment for women that can't reach orgasm is not to focus on the having the orgasm, but to focus nothing but enjoying the moment and the joy of sex. I've tried to adapt that philosophy buy it doesn't seem to work...

    Why is it that embarassing situations make u hard and non-embarassing situations make u flacid? my heartbeats fast when Im embarassed, but shouldn't it also when I'm nervous (relatively) about not getting it up in time?

    Please don't think that I get crazy nervous over this either... I've tried to be calm and pretend like I'm by myself but it doesn't work. sorry let me rephrase that: nothing works CONSISTENTLY....
     
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    Supersized New Member

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    Im having trouble understanding your question. what is it you need help with? If it is psychological impotence your talking about, try masturbating more. That will teach you to get hard when it's time for sex. Use pornography(movies) alone and when having sex with your partner. That should help.
     
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    no touching, no watching porn.
     
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