How to know if women enjoy having sex with you??

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  1. JustHangin'

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    Well i think the title says it all, cus u always know about women having to fake the orgasms, not really enjoying the whole thing, etc....

    This is not a thread about how to know if ur woman is fakin an orgasm, but im just wondering if there are ways of reading that your female partner (wife/gf/whatever) enjoys having sex with you? is there any way to know? BESIDES asking them lol
     
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    Exuberance and active participation in the moment.

    You see fake exuberance in pro porn.

    You see real exuberance in am porn.

    Women emotionally involved seemed to be the more exuberant and involved. The healthy ones express it in wetness. They also need their partner to have stamina. In am(amteur) porn you see women get flushed ready to come in a minute or two more and their partner shoots his wad. You can see them express their frustration if you look for it. Hahaha. The guys involved seem to be oblivious. Hahaha.

    If you can catch my drift try posting examples of what you think is which.

    It is about as reliable as someone good at telling the difference between fake boobs and real ones. Same sixth sense :)

    P.s. If YOU can't tell then you aren't doing it right.
     
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  3. JustHangin'

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    No no, but im not talkin about specifics when having sex... i mean more like, maybe if she "starts" sex, could mean she likes it... or stuff like that... im not talkin about how to know DURING sex lol
     
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    If she wants to continue having sex with you, if she initiates it after the first time, and if she actively is involved in the sex, and no just laying there like a dead fish.
     
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    If you treat her like shit in every other way and she still comes back for sex, then you know she enjoys the sex. :tongue::18::09::smirk::joke::tounge-in-cheek::dance::biglaugh:
     
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    ding ding ding ding ding

    we have the winner by knockout
     
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    :yup: :wink:
     
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    If she moans loud screams for God she really likes it.
     
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    If she says Oh! Oh! Yes! Yes! You're the best! It was fake. :laughing:
     
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    my boyfriend knows i like having sex with him because...
    flying tackles when he walks through the door.
    my habit of molesting him public places.
    i tell him i love having sex with him. *using a lil bit diff phrasing.*
    spontaneous blow-jobs. ya got to give a boy praise.
    i initiate and take the lead. *i don't need active participation, just consent*

    if she keep having sex with you and no money is changing hands she likes having sex with you.

    if you've ever gotten a 4am booty call from an ex, you bring the good loving.

    if she says "sex is the only reason i put up with your crazy ass"

    if she takes preemptive aspirin to avoid headaches.

    ML
     
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    You could always just ask her...
     
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    "if you've ever gotten a 4am booty call from an ex, you bring the good loving."

    another reason I love MickeyLee!
     
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    Amost always moaning or the like is a give-away, as are bright smiles or the furrowed brow of concentration on pleasure
     
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    Sounds like my girl. I guess I'm doing a good job then. :biggrin1:
     
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    Ms Stacy is doing a wonderful job with the positive reinforcement.

    if you wake up with gold star stickers all over your naughties you can be almost certain you are doing a good job.

    ML

    *gold star for her too*
     
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    No gold stars, just tons of empty gold wrappers. :tongue:
     
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    gold wrappers are the adult version of the gold star.

    ML

    bravo young person. bravo!
     
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    You get to have sex with her the next day...
     
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    I see. Now, what if I wake up with a big "F" written in red felt-tip on my dong? :frown1:
     
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    totally agree on that one, could not say it better myself. If she still wants you - she enjoy is it with you.
     
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