how to let he know ,i like him.

[deleted492424]

i am a Asian boy ,work in abercromibe ,fitch .in my store , only me is a foreigner (other staff a local ).
and i really like one boy who work with me ,but i don't know he is gay or not .
i know ,western people doesn't like asian boy ,but i am crazy for him ,what can i do now ? sorry my English not good .

 

[nudeyorker]

I think that you are wrong in thinking that men in western culture do not like asian men. I know many who fantasize and idolize and prefer to date only asian men. My advice is not to get involved with anyone sexually or romantically when you are working with them; however if you are in a venue like a gay bar or a party and you happen to run into him talk to him and try becoming friends outside of work first and then maybe see where it goes from there.
PS I don't know what your first language is but your english is much better than my japanese.

 

[deleted492424]

I think that you are wrong in thinking that men in western culture do not like asian men. I know many who fantasize and idolize and prefer to date only asian men. My advice is not to get involved with anyone sexually or romantically when you are working with them; however if you are in a venue like a gay bar or a party and you happen to run into him talk to him and try becoming friends outside of work first and then maybe see where it goes from there.
PS I don't know what your first language is but your english is much better than my japanese.

my first language is CHINESE . yes ,i agree with your idea! maybe we can be friend or more outside of work . but i really dont konw how to talk with western people .i mean the topic !

 

[deleted492424]

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[nudeyorker]

There are a lot of ways to start a conversation; but one of the best ways is finding something that is of interest to both of you. Your bio states that you are interested in music and you are a student. Start with music or other areas you are studying and try to find some common ground. When I was single and dating I would read a copy of Time magazine and People before I went out on a date so I was fairly familiar with world events and pop culture for two or three hours of discussion. You can start to be more personal with people as you get to know them better.
Please don't let english being a second language dampen your spirits, as I said before you speak english very well now but with time and the more you communicate on a daily basis it will improve.

 

[rbkwp]

I know many who fantasize and idolize and prefer to date only asian men.

agree with NY

part Asian myself, and i now know i missed a few opportunities earlier on, with White boys who were intrigued with the Asian portion ..


Patience Perseverance my friend
think often its in Asian culture to feel inferior, even with the youngers these days,
think, Parents unwittingly instill this in there children

 

[deleted492424]

There are a lot of ways to start a conversation; but one of the best ways is finding something that is of interest to both of you. Your bio states that you are interested in music and you are a student. Start with music or other areas you are studying and try to find some common ground. When I was single and dating I would read a copy of Time magazine and People before I went out on a date so I was fairly familiar with world events and pop culture for two or three hours of discussion. You can start to be more personal with people as you get to know them better.
Please don't let english being a second language dampen your spirits, as I said before you speak english very well now but with time and the more you communicate on a daily basis it will improve.

wow.thank you so much about your advice .u gave me a really good lesson.
i think we both like fashion ! so that our common ! hah ,i got it !
and i am a big fan of music ,i can talk music as well . i will improve my english everyday ,i do not want to some western people don't like talk with me because i have a bad English !

 

[deleted492424]

I know many who fantasize and idolize and prefer to date only asian men.

agree with NY

part Asian myself, and i now know i missed a few opportunities earlier on, with White boys who were intrigued with the Asian portion ..


Patience Perseverance my friend
think often its in Asian culture to feel inferior, even with the youngers these days,
think, Parents unwittingly instill this in there children

i am not often feel inferior ,just because u know its my second language ,so i cant talk very good like my own language ,so sometimes i feel bad,but i still very sunshine and like talk smile all the time ! thank you for your message ,now i have confidence .

 

[rbkwp]

Thank you for you reply i understand you.

People must also have the patience to at least try, to understand you,thats most important.
Dont be disheartened if they initially dont try
BEST of luck.

 

[hungboy18]

I think you should never give up on your feelings, you should try to know him better and be his friend, and see where it goes from there.

 

[deleted492424]

Thank you for you reply i understand you.

People must also have the patience to at least try, to understand you,thats most important.
Dont be disheartened if they initially dont try
BEST of luck.

thank you ! i will try my best !!:smile::smile::smile:

 

[deleted492424]

I think you should never give up on your feelings, you should try to know him better and be his friend, and see where it goes from there.

i always want to be his friend ,afraid he not treat me like his friends ! you know someone ,with smile talk with u ,but when he /she turn around the will total change their face !