Maybe I'm asking the question everyone wants the answer to, or maybe it's just me and my naivite. But how do you make a girl orgasm? Some claim it's related to size, others to technique. If it's technique, would some guys with smaller penises care to share? I'm about 5-6 inches long, and about 5 inches around. I've had sex with two girls so far, and I have sex regularly with my current girlfriend, but I have never been able to make either one orgasm. My girlfriend has a really creamy vagina, and she gets really wet sometimes and makes a mess but never orgasms. My ex claimed last year that it was a matter of size, and that her new boyfriend and his big cock makes her cum. Though I didn't buy it. I feel it's probably more related to my phimosis, which means my dick is extremely sensitive, so I can't do rough fast sex for a long time. Perhaps others with phimosis would like to help with this one, too. I have been doing stretching on and off so I can pull my foreskin down, but I also have a very low pain tolerance (meaning I pass out from extreme pain), so I have only subjected my newly exposed penis to water from the shower at the most. So anyone else in the same boat? Anyone want to share tips, sympathy or empathy ? I appreciate your comments, thanks!