Idk if its not possible for some females, but I used to think it wasnt possible for me. I did research thanks to my fiance and worked at it until it happened. For me its a vibrator on my clit (any stimulation is a bonus and multiplier but not necessary). I can squirt as many times as I let myself.
It honestly came for me once I realized what I had to choose to do, opposed to being afraid that I was just going to give him a golden shower. Just got to get her comfortable with it with facts, and ease into it. Put a towel down and tell her just let it flow no worries its all in the name of science

. It took me quite a few times experimenting on my own to realize what was going on and to let it happen, I mean a month of practicing in the shower. Now I dont want to cum or try to cum. I feel like squirting instead...it feels fucking awesome.