How to make a move on “straight”

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STOP focusing on labels and dont force LGBT labels on them. The rules to fooling around with someone sharing a bed with you are universal. Briefly make physical contact "accidentally" with them and see what happens. If they do the same to you, respond accordingly. If they brush u off, move away or are actually sleeping, stop. Many times, people fake sleep when sharing a bed with someone. It's not complicated
 

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walk in on him showering.I have found it is easy when guy gets separated from his clothes.Skinny dipping after drinking.

Walk in on her showering. I have found it easy when a girl gets separated from her clothes. Skinny dipping after drinking.
 

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Why do gay lads seem to think its okay to pursue straight lads? It's like straight lads going for lesbians. He isn't a piece of meat or property, back off him.

It may seem innocent but it can come off really aggressive when you are pursued by someone you have no interest in.

He will likely back off the friendship entirely.

Noted my lesbian point already said!
Some of this has to do with a person not being out themselves. You have to get out in the real world and meet gay and bisexual men who will want to have sex with you. This whole DL thing is so tired. It's sexy being out.
 

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To make it CLEAR- we know each other for a few years. He’s been very open to me about he’s sexual fantasies and so do I. I feel like it’s signs for me so no I don’t try to make him do stuff he don’t want, I will not push him into things so y’all can relax.
 

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To make it CLEAR- we know each other for a few years. He’s been very open to me about he’s sexual fantasies and so do I. I feel like it’s signs for me so no I don’t try to make him do stuff he don’t want, I will not push him into things so y’all can relax.
Hi, I don't understand the drama some guys put up here! If it was me there under the same cover with your friend, maybe casually/accidentally let your hand land on hid chest or so. If he lift it away, he's not comfortable and not probably like. If OK, maybe carefully go a bit further and so on. That's what happened for me with a shy guy who didn't dare to take the first step. We had a lot of fun after that together!
I've tried with other friend too who didn't want, but it's no problem, still good friends!

Have a nice day and good luck!
 
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Ask him if you can touch him. He either shrug okay.. or ask for more info.. you won’t get an out right no. He’ll let you down easy or let you touch him. It doesn’t out right sound sexual. Kind of easier to say yes or no to. If yes Go for safe spots chest shoulders.. you gotta commit once you start.