Alright, so being a virgin, i'm getting frustrated and trying my best to get laid. However something that seems to be common with all the girls I see is that they used to think of me as just a friend because i never 'made a move.'
I had one of them tell me this and analyzed what happened in the past and realized this was the problem. So lately i've been trying to be more physical. I've started to touch girls like lightly on the shoulder or hugging instead of waving when i meet, etc, etc.
I can easily make eye contact no problem, and i'm trying to be more playful and funny when i talk with them instead of the usual "what do you do" interview stuff I used to do.
Now this has worked in getting girls to go out with me, or spend time or be around me, but then I can never push it to a level where I feel she wants me, or that it's going anywhere.
Since i've never been sexual before, I don't know how to get there, I can't escalate it to that level.
Take tonight for example. I'm out with my band and we're playing beer pong, things are going good, i get on the team with this smokin' hot blonde. We say hi exchange names, and throughout the night i'm checking her out, and she's giving me hi-fives and we're standing really close together and joking around, and in the off-games she's in the distance and i'll catch her gaze every once and awhile, etc. But it never goes past that.
TIPS, HELP, ANything, that will let me finally move on and be able to fully understand women so I won't be inept. It's like a catch22, i can't get them because i don't know what to do but i don't know what to do because i can't get them!
I had one of them tell me this and analyzed what happened in the past and realized this was the problem. So lately i've been trying to be more physical. I've started to touch girls like lightly on the shoulder or hugging instead of waving when i meet, etc, etc.
I can easily make eye contact no problem, and i'm trying to be more playful and funny when i talk with them instead of the usual "what do you do" interview stuff I used to do.
Now this has worked in getting girls to go out with me, or spend time or be around me, but then I can never push it to a level where I feel she wants me, or that it's going anywhere.
Since i've never been sexual before, I don't know how to get there, I can't escalate it to that level.
Take tonight for example. I'm out with my band and we're playing beer pong, things are going good, i get on the team with this smokin' hot blonde. We say hi exchange names, and throughout the night i'm checking her out, and she's giving me hi-fives and we're standing really close together and joking around, and in the off-games she's in the distance and i'll catch her gaze every once and awhile, etc. But it never goes past that.
TIPS, HELP, ANything, that will let me finally move on and be able to fully understand women so I won't be inept. It's like a catch22, i can't get them because i don't know what to do but i don't know what to do because i can't get them!