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Ask her out to dinner. Wait too long and you will be friend zoned.
cross post about that is trolling@someperson Don't you think you should spend your time working on getting your GED, as opposed to trolling on the internet.
I'm pretty sure women do automatic or absent minded looking too. It doesn't necessarily mean anything when I do it either.I guess sometimes its just "automatic" its like us men, when we watch a nice cleavage or an ass in the street, that dont mind we are intetrested in the girl, it just that attract the eyes
So yeah, I dont know why you asking urself all thoses questions, I would just keep talking with her like nothing happened, and if she was really interested, i think you could feel it into your conversations with her
I mean if all girls have to be confused...and dunno how to act o when a guy star at their boobs
Their brain would explode
Sorry for my english, I have trouble making sentence
I'm pretty sure women do automatic or absent minded looking too. It doesn't necessarily mean anything when I do it either.
I know I didn't word my post very well, so I'll try to explain what I meant by that. What I was trying to get at was if I should just continue talking to her and pretend her staring at my package never happened lol. I wasn't really being serious with how I titled this thread, sorry for the confusion.
If I recall from previous posts, you are slightly older than college age, and doing college in Arizona. I have a couple of buddies entering college as 18 year olds planning to drink in moderation, and have sex in as little moderation as they can possibly find. There are women who support this opinion. If she is looking at your cock, she probably wants it, and expects a man of your age to make a move on her. Show her that you respect her with dinner - and if you want to have sex with her, now is probably the time. If you have more than a few dates, and she is basically looking for sex, then she will find it elsewhere.
If it is sex you want - I think you have found it. If it is long walks on the beach, candles, and rose petals - you're in college - you know what the expectation is of your colleagues, and good luck finding a 50 year old in a 20 year old body. It is possible to have sex and then develop a good relationship - I strongly suspect you are missing about 90% of your opportunities for good relationships (the type you want) because they leave you because you won't have sex with them, or appear not to have interest in having sex with them, as is the norm for them.
A couple of false starts are ok, and don't make you a terrible soiled person - hopefully they will give you the confidence to approach your Princess Leia (??? insert preferred reference) when she shows up, without any silliness about when sex expectations kick in, and how your body is going to perform.
Good luck - you seem like a really nice guy. I think you need to learn to be a little bit nasty to get over the hump and learn how to relate to the ladies you are looking for, who are currently looking for a gentleman, but one who wants to fuck them. and when he doesn't at the normal rate of a college student - the thought is are you gay, am I ugly, is there something wrong with me?
Flip the situation around for a moment. You were the one staring at her large chest. She caught you at it. How would you want her to talk to you?
Do you want her to pretend you aren't staring at her assets? Do you her to challenge you? Or would you prefer she got to know you, since you're already interested?
If I recall from previous posts, you are slightly older than college age, and doing college in Arizona. I have a couple of buddies entering college as 18 year olds planning to drink in moderation, and have sex in as little moderation as they can possibly find. There are women who support this opinion. If she is looking at your cock, she probably wants it, and expects a man of your age to make a move on her. Show her that you respect her with dinner - and if you want to have sex with her, now is probably the time. If you have more than a few dates, and she is basically looking for sex, then she will find it elsewhere.
If it is sex you want - I think you have found it. If it is long walks on the beach, candles, and rose petals - you're in college - you know what the expectation is of your colleagues, and good luck finding a 50 year old in a 20 year old body. It is possible to have sex and then develop a good relationship - I strongly suspect you are missing about 90% of your opportunities for good relationships (the type you want) because they leave you because you won't have sex with them, or appear not to have interest in having sex with them, as is the norm for them.
A couple of false starts are ok, and don't make you a terrible soiled person - hopefully they will give you the confidence to approach your Princess Leia (??? insert preferred reference) when she shows up, without any silliness about when sex expectations kick in, and how your body is going to perform.
Good luck - you seem like a really nice guy. I think you need to learn to be a little bit nasty to get over the hump and learn how to relate to the ladies you are looking for, who are currently looking for a gentleman, but one who wants to fuck them. and when he doesn't at the normal rate of a college student - the thought is are you gay, am I ugly, is there something wrong with me?
So, nice girls in college, the kind you'd like to know in a relationship, and maybe bring home to the family, want to get fucked? It boggles the mind! Or did mine, back in the day.
or tell her the truth, you have problems interacting with girls, but you wanna go out with her.
I say ask her out. Pull the trigger already. You got it going on. She is just waiting for you to make a move. Dating is fun. God speed big fella. Cheers!
Gee. Maybe I was MGTOW before it had a name. Guess I fell off the wagon.To anyone that is considering posting on this thread, it is a lost cause at this point. Typical millennial female nonsense, I really don't want to go MGTOW but it is really starting to look like the most rational decision at this point. Can be 6'4", very fit, handsome and a great guy overall....but it isn't enough lol.