Now we're going into a scary world and people we want to have sex with might be infected with some dangerous and scary diseases. I'm a virgin and I'm particularly scared of having my first because of this (I blew my chance to do it with a guy who has a thick 8 inches just because of this!). So, I really don't know how you guys survive, but did you guys make sure at least if the person has HIV? or do you guys just jump on his bones just like that? How to politely ask if someone has HIV?