How to reach out for findom

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Hey (straight) guys,

Im experiencing in findom for a few years, and I try to reach out to new straight guys online through instagram or other social media, to try to convince them into findom.

Concrete I desire to see straight guys at public ATMs and let them use me as their personal bankcard and withdraw cash together.

Sometimes I get succes, sometimes not. Any thoughts on how to convince them nothing more is in the game? Also some thoughts about reaching out to straights kn real life, like in public transport or in the gym or in a bar?

Greets

X
 

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Hey (straight) guys,

Im experiencing in findom for a few years, and I try to reach out to new straight guys online through instagram or other social media, to try to convince them into findom.

Concrete I desire to see straight guys at public ATMs and let them use me as their personal bankcard and withdraw cash together.

Sometimes I get succes, sometimes not. Any thoughts on how to convince them nothing more is in the game? Also some thoughts about reaching out to straights kn real life, like in public transport or in the gym or in a bar?

Greets

X


Is this some new fetish?
 

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Everything to Know About Financial Domination, AKA FinDom​


In case you haven’t noticed, money and sex have a tendency to overlap in all kinds of ways. And if you’re into a little thing called FinDom, one of those ways may just involve handing large sums of money and/or control of your bank account over to a professional Dominatrix. Yep, it’s a thing, and it’s called financial domination (hence “FinDom” for short).

This kink is rooted in the transfer of money from a submissive individual to their dom. “This act signifies a profound transfer of power and control,” says psychologist Nazanin Moali, PhD, sex therapist and host of the Sexology podcast. FinDom differs from regular old gift-giving in that “the submissive often gives money or assets specifically because the dominator has demanded it,” adds Moali.
 

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As the OP is asking straight men

I can not relate as applied to a Kink . However in my youth If I was trying to impress a young lady; and lets say I was down to my last $ 200 till pay day; and it was a Saturday. I may and have spent an afternoon in NYC with a Georgiou's woman. Sooo Parking not including tip $ 25 +tax, Late Lunch for 2 35 - 45 dollars plus tip . Movie - Museum / flea market / street fair Etc, lets say another 30 to 40 Dollars. Probably a stop at the bakery I love for something to enjoy with coffee at her place later 10 + $$. Getting the car to drive to another parking garage near her Apartment another 25+ tip . Throw tolls and lets not forget gas. Long story short I have a few singles to last till pay day . ( I admit no sex on that date )

Yes one can feel a little like an ATM. Though I enjoyed the day and manyyyy others like that . There no kink associated, just a guy enjoying the company of another person, with the hope of sex down the road

These are year 2000 prices,

Ro
 
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Hey (straight) guys,

Im experiencing in findom for a few years, and I try to reach out to new straight guys online through instagram or other social media, to try to convince them into findom.

Concrete I desire to see straight guys at public ATMs and let them use me as their personal bankcard and withdraw cash together.

Sometimes I get succes, sometimes not. Any thoughts on how to convince them nothing more is in the game? Also some thoughts about reaching out to straights kn real life, like in public transport or in the gym or in a bar?

Greets

X
Many findom on twitter both male and female. Pretty large scene with a lot of kinks (hypno, muscle, feeding, ect) and overlaps, I personally have a page @pigsqueezer.
 

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As the OP is asking straight men

I can not relate as applied to a Kink . However in my youth If I was trying to impress a young lady; and lets say I was down to my last $ 200 till pay day; and it was a Saturday. I may and have spent an afternoon in NYC with a Georgiou's woman. Sooo Parking not including tip $ 25 +tax, Late Lunch for 2 35 - 45 dollars plus tip . Movie - Museum / flea market / street fair Etc, lets say another 30 to 40 Dollars. Probably a stop at the bakery I love for something to enjoy with coffee at her place later 10 + $$. Getting the car to drive to another parking garage near her Apartment another 25+ tip . Throw tolls and lets not forget gas. Long story short I have a few singles to last till pay day . ( I admit no sex on that date )

Yes one can feel a little like an ATM. Though I enjoyed the day and manyyyy others like that . There no kink associated, just a guy enjoying the company of another person, with the hope of sex down the road

These are year 2000 prices,

Ro
Thanks for the clarification of the therm, I thought it was a former USSR country and somebody trying to escape from it.

Coming from a no response profile on ask straight seams yet another gay for pay question.

As you pointed out if we pay for everything it may seam that way but al least we choose a better place than a ATM where we could face indecent exposure charges and certainly more comfortable