I have/may have a baby... I have met honestly the most perfect girl ever. Beautiful, smart, and just lovely. We haven't known each other long... But I am wondering how/when/if to tell her I have or may have a child. I guess I am just scared that she will think less of me and ultimately not want to see me anymore. Although on the other hand I don't want to lie to her or "lead her on" and for her to care about me and stuff and then hurt her that way. What should I do? Bearing in mind the baby isn't born yet and may not be mine. Although "the dates" do indicate that it will be. Part of me thinks I should be alone to focus on the baby, assuming it is mine. Part of me wants to try and be happy with someone but I honestly can't see it happening. Therefore I am reluctant to say/do anything and I find myself holding back/waiting for her to "end it"... Advice?