Some female insight would be appreciated.
I've been seeing this great woman for about 2 months. She's into me way more than I'm into her. I really like her and I'm not going any where, but wow, she wants to be with me 24/7. She gets offended if I want to spend any time away from her. Is it too much to ask to spend one night a week with other friends? One evening after a particularly long 12 hour workday, I just wanted to veg in front of the TV and crash early. She wasn't very understanding about me wanting some time to myself.
I can understand to an extent why she's like this. Thru friends and stuff she's told me, she's had a bunch of jerks for BFs. Honestly I think she's so into me because I'm treating her well, I haven't seen other woman while we've dated, I [mostly] enjoy talking with her and give her my undivided attention . . . "little" things that I just assume should be understood in a relationship. I guess her previous BFs didn't take their relationship seriously with her.
If you were totally into a guy and he wanted to back off a bit, what could he say that would get his point across without upsetting you? Or do I just treat her like a big girl and be point blank with her? She's sweet and thoughtful and I don't want to hurt her but she's coming on too strong.
I've never had reservations about communicating with a woman like this before. Maybe this is just a sign that she's not the right one for me.
Ugh... why do I have to be so nice sometimes. I think I liked it better when I wasn't a one woman dude...
I've been seeing this great woman for about 2 months. She's into me way more than I'm into her. I really like her and I'm not going any where, but wow, she wants to be with me 24/7. She gets offended if I want to spend any time away from her. Is it too much to ask to spend one night a week with other friends? One evening after a particularly long 12 hour workday, I just wanted to veg in front of the TV and crash early. She wasn't very understanding about me wanting some time to myself.
I can understand to an extent why she's like this. Thru friends and stuff she's told me, she's had a bunch of jerks for BFs. Honestly I think she's so into me because I'm treating her well, I haven't seen other woman while we've dated, I [mostly] enjoy talking with her and give her my undivided attention . . . "little" things that I just assume should be understood in a relationship. I guess her previous BFs didn't take their relationship seriously with her.
If you were totally into a guy and he wanted to back off a bit, what could he say that would get his point across without upsetting you? Or do I just treat her like a big girl and be point blank with her? She's sweet and thoughtful and I don't want to hurt her but she's coming on too strong.
I've never had reservations about communicating with a woman like this before. Maybe this is just a sign that she's not the right one for me.
Ugh... why do I have to be so nice sometimes. I think I liked it better when I wasn't a one woman dude...