I'm straight, he's straight, this isn't a hookup thread.
I'm in my 20s, this guy's married with kids, probably 50+. He doesn't want to go see The Avengers, he doesn't want to come over and play Xbox, he doesn't want to go to the bar with me, and leave his wife and kids at home. I don't even know how to get started on something like this.
The guy's about 1 level of authority higher than me where we work, but he's not my direct supervisor, and if we had some really catastrophically bad experience outside of work I would still have a job. No problems there except that I don't want to piss anyone off.
This guy is the happiest, manliest guy I know, and he's the kind of genuinely good person that just has everyone's best interest at heart all the time no matter who they are or what decisions they've made. How could I not want to hang out with a guy like that? He's pretty fuckin' cool. I just have literally no common ground to start out with so we can feel it out. Honestly I don't think he hangs out with anyone from work. I don't think anyone with kids does. Is that what happens when you have kids? No more hanging out with your buddies?
I'm in my 20s, this guy's married with kids, probably 50+. He doesn't want to go see The Avengers, he doesn't want to come over and play Xbox, he doesn't want to go to the bar with me, and leave his wife and kids at home. I don't even know how to get started on something like this.
The guy's about 1 level of authority higher than me where we work, but he's not my direct supervisor, and if we had some really catastrophically bad experience outside of work I would still have a job. No problems there except that I don't want to piss anyone off.
This guy is the happiest, manliest guy I know, and he's the kind of genuinely good person that just has everyone's best interest at heart all the time no matter who they are or what decisions they've made. How could I not want to hang out with a guy like that? He's pretty fuckin' cool. I just have literally no common ground to start out with so we can feel it out. Honestly I don't think he hangs out with anyone from work. I don't think anyone with kids does. Is that what happens when you have kids? No more hanging out with your buddies?