It seems to me that the real question is not How?, but Why?. Why in the ever-lovin' blue-eyed world would you want to stop wanking? And that's a serious request for an explanation, just as Ed69 asks. Posters have already given you a number of good reasons not to do so. Why put yourself through such a nerve-racking ordeal--unless maybe you're practicing to become a monk or priest...? (And I don't for a minute believe their assertions of completely orgasm-free celibacy, either.) If jacking off (even when one is also getting two-person sex) is not an absolute physical need for men, it's damn close to it. If you're merely wanting to test your resolve, surely there are better, more rewarding ways to do that. ~ Note: I have never had a wet dream in my life, even though I tried to will them at one time just for the experience. (My college roommate hated them, esp. in the winter!) It is a widespread myth that virtually all men have them. Studies have shown that a very large percentage never do (though I don't recall the exact figure). ~ But that's neither here nor there, Starter. It's your dick and its your choice, obviously. But what a pity it would be to see that magnificent prod of yours languishing for lack of TLC...!!! :wank:Think it over.....