How to talk dirty?

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I think I explained wrong, talking dirty during sex wouldn't be a bad idea. I am talking about how to talk dirty when not having sex without crossing the line?

I'm confused. :confused: Is she wanting you to talk dirty to her out in public, like at a restaurant or the movies? Or when you are kissing?
 

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It varies from woman to woman, but if she's wanting you to talk dirty, she may enjoy you not holding back on your natural sounds when you're in the throes of passion. Gasps and grunts and moans, etc.

Not saying to ham it up and get all fakey about it, but if you feel like you're holding back on other sounds during sex, she may preger you a bit louder that way as well.

Just a thought.
 
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I was once with a woman who I did a fair amount of dirty talking too. One thing about talking dirty, often if one person starts, the other will often join in. Maybe she wants to join in and just wants you to start. Some things that have worked well for me:

Do you want me to f**k you? Then tell me.
Do you like it when I pound your pu***?
Immediate above, but say, Do you want me to pound your pu*** harder? Tell me.

If you get them going with you on the dirty talk, it can be a gigantic turn on. Everyone wins!!
 

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I can say that depending on the mood of the woman that crossing the line is kind of hard to do if you already know ahead of time that she is attracted to you. There are defiantly more hardcore things to say than others but it's really just a feeling out thing that you will learn from doing it. Woman are very forgiving people, thank god, and will work with you for the most part ;). Like someone said above the most important thing is have fun with it and all will be well. Start off with soft porn talk then move on the XXX.

Starters:
Damn you look sexy in that!
Your body is so incredible I would love to see more.
etc.

Some nice things that always works for me that are more "dirty" would be, coming up from behind the woman, in public, and putting your hands on her hips and whispering in her ear things like,

"Your body is so hot my cock is throbbing thinking about all the things it could do for you."

kiss her softly on the neck and say,
"I would so love to taste every inch of your body."

Or "I would love to take you right here and now."

I have found that, for the most part woman like a confidant man and one that feels in control and also when you talk dirty it's not always the best thing to tell them exactly what you want to do but leave it a little vague so that there imaginations can do some of the work and therefor makes them more involved in the fantasy.
 

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I can say that depending on the mood of the woman that crossing the line is kind of hard to do if you already know ahead of time that she is attracted to you.

"Are you wearing the panties your mom laid out for you?"

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