how to tel a mate i like him

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by boib, Jan 11, 2009.

  1. boib

    boib New Member

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    i have been working with this guy for about a year now and we started out just mates but it grew and now i cant stop thinking about him. we do that whole joking around about being gay thing and spank each other on the arse thing but he thinks im joking when i am being serious how do i tell him how i feel without it being wierd at work
     
  2. D_Gunther Snotpole

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    Very tricky stuff.
    Unless you get that he's gay, you have nothing really to gain and a lot to lose by revealing your feelings.
    And, since you're at the workplace, it would arguably even be unfair to him, if there's real chance he will then be uncomfortable with you.
    Happens, you know.
     
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