How to tell a sucker he isn’t doing it right.....

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Thanks for reading. Last year I began a one way oral only sexual relationship with a straight married fellow who responded to my Craigslist post seeking a regular basis sucker, so we have met several times now and he has done his thing all the way to the end without skipping a beat or missing a drop....he definitely like his new toy even nicknamed it “the fat thing” . For the most part I too have enjoyed and really appreciated what he has been doing to get my rocks off. The problem is his constant teeth scratching along the top half down the length of my wood....it’s like the wide between teeth is too narrow to fit my shaft without the teeth making contact......it’s hard to relax and totally enjoy, specially when he starts getting into it. I have told him to take it easy....to not try to take more than 3”....but he is apparently set on getting to fit the whole thing down his throat. He says that I am his first...and so I have been patient. I have been sucked by 3 other guys before this one...all one time encounters. It’s not easy to find guys willing to suck....not now that Craigslist’s Personals is gone.

So the question is: How to politely tell someone how to do it without having any idea yourself about the proper way to do it ....and without insulting or hurting his feelings....I don’t want to have to look for another fellow, because I don’t know where to look. He hasn’t drawn blood just yet, but does always leave parallel red lines along the top edges of the first 4 inches of the shaft. He is aiming to reach to my pubes....that’s another 3 inches away.....not looking forward to that....
 
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How is he positioned when sucking?

What you describe sounds a little like his mouth is sideways... as in the teeth are either side of your cock, as opposed to above and below. This position can lead to teeth scraping especially on a wider cock.

As for what to say... you just have to come right out and state that he needs to watch his teeth, he is leaving scrape marks on your cock and this is painful.... for sure, you can couch it with remarks about how you’re enjoying having a regular cocksucker and you like how he takes his time and swallows every drop at the end... but I’ve found myself that too often, people engaged in sexual activity do not absorb gentle constructive criticism well in the heat of the moment... you need to be direct... do this, don’t do that... especially if unwanted pain or marks are involved.


Sorry... forgot to begin with the obligatory LPSG request that we cannot properly comment unless we see your penis! :)
 
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Thanks for reading. Last year I began a one way oral only sexual relationship with a straight married fellow who responded to my Craigslist post seeking a regular basis sucker, so we have met several times now and he has done his thing all the way to the end without skipping a beat or missing a drop....he definitely like his new toy even nicknamed it “the fat thing” . For the most part I too have enjoyed and really appreciated what he has been doing to get my rocks off. The problem is his constant teeth scratching along the top half down the length of my wood....it’s like the wide between teeth is too narrow to fit my shaft without the teeth making contact......it’s hard to relax and totally enjoy, specially when he starts getting into it. I have told him to take it easy....to not try to take more than 3”....but he is apparently set on getting to fit the whole thing down his throat. He says that I am his first...and so I have been patient. I have been sucked by 3 other guys before this one...all one time encounters. It’s not easy to find guys willing to suck....not now that Craigslist’s Personals is gone.

So the question is: How to politely tell someone how to do it without having any idea yourself about the proper way to do it ....and without insulting or hurting his feelings....I don’t want to have to look for another fellow, because I don’t know where to look. He hasn’t drawn blood just yet, but does always leave parallel red lines along the top edges of the first 4 inches of the shaft. He is aiming to reach to my pubes....that’s another 3 inches away.....not looking forward to that....
Maybe if he slowed down just a tad......not everyone can suck such a big cock as yours.
 

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Maybe take the plunge and suck his once. Add a bit of teeth. See what he thinks.
Haha! Good one....that would be a passive aggressive way to get a message across....the fellow has never asked me to do anything and I never offered anything in exchange. Cocks are cool and all that but aside from the fact some guys got dicks I would have liked to have been born with, I have no desire to suck any or swallow any spunk..thanks for the tip.
 
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Interesting observation....didn’t see that as a possibility....but certainly he has always done it sitting on the driver’s seat.... sideways and bent over above my lap. We have never done it with his head directly straight facing me. He does mentioned wanting to get me somewhere more private so I can feed it to him while I stand up. So this might be an easy fix after all. So, in essence, getting a bj from a sideways position will inevitably bring the teeth into contact with the shaft, is that right?

Lol.....I didn’t read that part about having to post my junk’s pic.....


How is he positioned when sucking?

What you describe sounds a little like his mouth is sideways... as in the teeth are either side of your cock, as opposed to above and below. This position can lead to teeth scraping especially on a wider cock.

As for what to say... you just have to come right out and state that he needs to watch his teeth, he is leaving scrape marks on your cock and this is painful.... for sure, you can couch it with remarks about how you’re enjoying having a regular cocksucker and you like how he takes his time and swallows every drop at the end... but I’ve found myself that too often, people engaged in sexual activity do not absorb gentle constructive criticism well in the heat of the moment... you need to be direct... do this, don’t do that... especially if unwanted pain or marks are involved.


Sorry... forgot to begin with the obligatory LPSG request that we cannot properly comment unless we see your penis! :)
 
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Thanks.....yeah man I did tell him to take it easy, but he gets very horny and goes into a freakish trance of moans and shit....Mutualjax made me aware of the possible cause by pointing out that sideways bj body position might have to do with the issue. We always do it in the front seats of his pickup truck


Maybe if he slowed down just a tad......not everyone can suck such a big cock as yours.
 
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Pull it out of his mouth and slap his face with it. Tell him if he wants it he will do it right. Been doing this for years and it always gets the desired results, me continually ramming throat with balls slapping chin on every stroke until I unload.
 
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Thanks.....yeah man I did tell him to take it easy, but he gets very horny and goes into a freakish trance of moans and shit....Mutualjax made me aware of the possible cause by pointing out that sideways bj body position might have to do with the issue. We always do it in the front seats of his pickup truck
Got it.
 

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Right.....He has already suggested we get a hotel rm so we don’t have to rush shit in the front seat of a vehicle...he wants to kneel in front of me and have it feed from above....I do like the idea.....will see next time we hookup...thx

Put him on his knees, you standing. He might like that rather passive situation. If still not doing it right,grab his head and guide him.
Put him on his knees, you standing. He might like that rather passive situation. If still not doing it right,grab his head and guide him.
 

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I'd definitely go for the room. You can always split the cost of the room and you can be naked giving him full access to your cock and balls.

Let him lick and suck your balls and then guide your cock into his mouth. Make sure you've got time to take your time and enjoy the blow job. He'll get a nice big load at the end for his labor good luck. Nice cock you've got there buddy.

Before you know it you'll be fucking his throat.
 

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Thx.....posted pic to my album....not boned

I'd definitely go for the room. You can always split the cost of the room and you can be naked giving him full access to your cock and balls.

Let him lick and suck your balls and then guide your cock into his mouth. Make sure you've got time to take your time and enjoy the blow job. He'll get a nice big load at the end for his labor.

Again it'd be easier to tell if you had posted a cock pic. Good luck.[/QUOTE
 
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I'd definitely go for the room. You can always split the cost of the room and you can be naked giving him full access to your cock and balls.

Let him lick and suck your balls and then guide your cock into his mouth. Make sure you've got time to take your time and enjoy the blow job. He'll get a nice big load at the end for his labor good luck. Nice cock you've got there buddy.

Before you know it you'll be fucking his throat.
Take your time no need to rush behind closed doors.
 
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... So, in essence, getting a bj from a sideways position will inevitably bring the teeth into contact with the shaft, is that right?.....

Yes, pretty much. Some cocksuckers can stretch their mouths wider, but for many the sideways position will end up with some teeth scraping.

My husband is an excellent cocksucker, yet he is challenged covering his teeth all the time from a sideways position.

As others have said... different positions and locations will help give you a more enjoyable blowjob.
 
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Put him on his knees, you standing. He might like that rather passive situation. If still not doing it right,grab his head and guide him.

or as he is on his knees, slap him in the face (in a nurturing consenting fashion)
 
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How to tell a sucker they aren't doing it right... use your mouth.

I hope someone appreciates that. Seriously, that's kind of tough, I've never been able to guide a girlfriend into doing it in a way that felt good to me, either they could do it or they couldn't. I remember pleading with my first girlfriend to suck harder and she just wouldn't.
 
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