How to tell if a straight guy is really straight?

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  1. lookinright

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    I have a friend that is straight and he makes some comments that make me question his sexuality a bit like we were hanging out and we were checking out something i had and he worked the phrase "fuck me in the ass" in as a replying comment i ignored it but didnt forget it. Somehow i feel like he is trying to lead me into something but im not real sure.
     
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    You can't be serious dude......

    That's not a very uncommon expression. I as well as others I know say use the same phrase or similiar
    when in shock or disbelief or upset, bewildered etc.....

    I usually just say "fuck me" or "fuck me sideways"
     
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    do the bulge test

    make sure you show your bulge

    count how many times he looks

    if he looks more than 3 times on 2 or 3 different occasions than thats like a green light
     
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    I was wondering if you would make an appearance!
     
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    just whip it out.. if he questions you, say you saw an episode of Seinfeld in which one of the characters whipped it out because it needed to breathe... and you do everything that is done in Seinfeld in real life.
     
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    The next time he says it, reply with, "any place, any time" and see what his actions are!
     
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    ..probably no real way to tell for sure. With some guys I say to myself "probably not a gay bone in his body".

    Then with others it's like I can just feel it. Gay and bi guys seems to have what a call a playful, indirect sexual warmth about them.

    I may be wrong, but it seems I can really feel it coming from a guy. Usually it's the eyes, they are a dead giveaway.
     
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    I say gay shit all the time.

    Its funny.
     
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    What about the eyes?
     
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    Straight and gay are just ambiguous words people like to use to describe their amorphous sexual nature.

    Sexuality is like a slider scale, and people being completely to one side or the other isn't really all the common (if it even truly exists). Albeit, people are usually closer to one side than the other or somewhere in the middle, but again not completely to that side of the scale.

    The second line of my signature explains what I'm trying to say a little more clearly.
     
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    Pay close attention to who he has sex with. If he has sex with men, he's probably gay.

    Or you could ask him.
     
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    his eyes always lock into mine even across the room usually i break contact so he dont think im gay
     
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    Drop your pants, if he cradles your balls and give a BJ he is probably gay.
     
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    Subtlety is lost on the horny.
     
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    The guys who constantly remind me that they aren't gay...the ones who always notice the gay guy in the room and tell me how they get hit on everyday by gay guys...and then remind me that they aren't gay....
     
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    Cradle the balls.

    Saying that out loud gives me a laughing fit. It sounds so loving lol.
     
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    I'm so sick of seeing this damn question repeated over and over by dozens of people over the last few years. The only way to know is to ask and take his answer as truth. There os no way to analyze speech patterns, or base it off what he reads or watches.
     
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    Just play the game; I do its fun! you should've winked & laughed it off.....

    I have 2 guys at my job we have this weird thing going on & I like it even though I was nervous to even go to that level with them.

    The 1st one has a gf for like 4yrs he started out by smacking myass then it turned into dirty talk I was kinda nervous but I started back talking to that way (its fun!) he also likes to stick his tongue in & out of his mouth or bite me on the shoulder saying he likes to eat.... I would sometimes rub on his body because he is like buff built & he would say "id rather you rub my weiner like that".I usually give him hugs when I come into work. I think if I end up at his house he would try something.

    Now the 2nd one is kinda new I didn't know we would have this thing going although he confuses me because he takes it a step further with the feeling up,smiling across the room at me & dirty talk than the other one. I would be talking about texting someone so he ask me why don't I text him but he won't give me his # has like a lot of girls that he flirts with & a gf but idk? When I come into work he greets me as "hey babe/boo where is my hug" walking towards me seductively then I would tell him "I don't like you" then he will be like "shut up you know you love me, you had a crush on me since the day I started" (I didn't at 1st too skinny) he told me the other day that he wanted a blowjob so bad I just looked at him... he got bold one day I turned saw him staring at me so I said "what are you looking at?" & he said "you cutie! why are you so cute" coworkers started laughing & the one girl was like "what is wrong with you?" he said I don't care I was kidding.
     
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    Next time you are fucking him in the ass and he calls out a woman name he is probably straight.
     
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    Play the game Joey and Ross played in FRIENDS.

    Joey: I don't know. But hey, I know we can decide. Okay, I'm gonna ask you questions and you answer real quick. Okay?

    Ross: Okay.

    Joey: What do you like better action or comedy?

    Ross: Action.

    Joey: Who would you rather sleep with Monica or Rachel?

    (Ross pauses and looks at him, Joey motions for him to hurry up.)

    Ross: Dude, you are sick.

    Joey: Oh, I'm sorry. I forgot you had that whole Rachel thing.
     
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