I wouldn't jump into conclusions so fast.Met this guy at the gym and we had friendly conversation in passing, and that was that. Thought nothing of it.
After my workout I headed to the sauna, and found this guy in there naked with a towel wrapped around his waist. We were the only 2 guys in there for a while and chatted the entire time. He seemed straight, but was very very talkative and did not stop speaking or looking at me.
When i got up to leave, he told me he would leave too and we should take cold showers and then go back in. I got excited and foresaw something happening so said yes with a smile.
We showered separately and as soon as i turned mine off, he followed suit and left his stall, ans then walked over to mine and waited for me to exit so we could walk back to the sauna together.
We repeated this 3 more time over the course of 45 mins, just talking the whole time and taking cold shower breaks - when 1 would get up to leave, the other would follow. He would keep eye contact with me while talking, and periodically would fix his towel by his crotch.
He said he was probably gunna stay for another 20 mins but I was overheated and said i was heading out for good.
When i left he followed, and showered in the stall next to me. And when i exited my stall he was standing by mine waiting, and then followed me to my locker still talking to me the entire time. he then sat down infront of me as i dried off and got dressed, talking to me as i stripped naked infront of him and he was in his towel and looked a little fluffed up. He saw my cock and everything.
He sat and talked with me until i had my jacket on and was leaving, and then we said our goodbyes and he went back into the sauna.
I thought maybe i was just overthinking his kindness, but then he did this exact same ritual the next 2 times we were at the gym together.
Does it sound like he is maybe interested but doesn’t want to make the first move? Or am I just over analyzing a nice straight dude who isnt afraid to start a convo in the sauna lol?
I have (had) the same situations over and over. Some guys are extremely friendly and that makes me confused too. Recently a hot guy was looking at me constantly, started a conversation, went to the sauna, and kept saying how good I looked.
That happened 2 times. The 3rd time I told him I could give him my number so we could hang out.
He looked at me like telling me: I'm not gay and said he doesn't have a lot of free time and refused.
Now we are still "friends" but again, go slow, some guys are just extremely friendly or if you are muscular they admire you in a different way.
I've realized every time I see a big guy at the gym we always make eye contact and say hi.
Go slow, and make sure he's looking for something more than friendship