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is there a subtle way to tell someone you're on a date with that you have a smaller dick? it seems so many people set an expectation and are let down if their new interest doesn't meet those standards. it seems almost a waste to go the whole night just to find out in the end she or he isn't interested because of what you lack, so is there a way to let the potential partner now about your smaller measurements without being so blunt and upfront, that way they are at least 4 warn.
 
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Just let them kno how you love big cocks. They probably wouldnt care after such a statement. idk.
 
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So, lets think this through a bit;

You're meeting up with a guy in one of two ways;

You met this person at work, at school, through mutual friends, at a party, or somewhere in public. You've gone out with him enough times (hopefully more than once) that you're both ready to do it.

At this point, he likes you enough to want to have sex with you, and while he probably isn't going to throw a parade celebrating your smaller penis, I have a hard time believing he's going to walk out of the room all J Lo style. In this situation? That is how one finds out about the genitals of their partner- by finding out. Normally people don't converse about that as part of a sequence (step one; talk about self, step two; talk about family, step three; the past, step four; the future, step five; junk size, step six; where to go for dinner etc.)

The other way you're likely to be headed out on a date with a guy in 2013 is because you've used A4A or Grindr or some other app that hooks gay guys up for a litany of reasons. Those sites all have profiles that specifically allow you to list the length of your junk so there are no surprises.

Either way... it's my opinion that you're imagining this to be a much larger problem (no pun intended) than it actually is. In spite of protestations to the contrary on this site? There are far more important things than the size of a guys cock.




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Looking at your gallery you have a decent size penis. You're not as well hung as some on here, but you're not tiny either. Before looking at your gallery I imagined you to have a much smaller penis. I wouldn't worry about it if I were you. A plus in you favor is you are circumcised.
 

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is there a subtle way to tell someone you're on a date with that you have a smaller dick? it seems so many people set an expectation and are let down if their new interest doesn't meet those standards. it seems almost a waste to go the whole night just to find out in the end she or he isn't interested because of what you lack, so is there a way to let the potential partner now about your smaller measurements without being so blunt and upfront, that way they are at least 4 warn.

Always proceed to date with the photograph of your small penis. :) Mystery removed.
 

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I agree with JustSomeZombie and others. And I think you are over-analysing.

And it looks fine to me anyway. Not sure why you'd be sensitive about it.

Think about how you are going to feel if the other guy has a dick like yours, or maybe a little smaller ? If you think that would have to ruin the quality of the sex, and therefore the quality of the relationship, you probably aren't worth being with, if I'm honest. So think about that the other way around ... if he's a nice guy, he's going to be pleased to meet you, and he'll be fine about your dick.

People, inside their minds and souls, are little clusters of light and energy. Memories, beliefs, attitudes, and emotions. Filled with experience, and ways of managing their paths through the world. And almost every body, and every part of every body, can be seen as valid and beautiful in its own way, if you simply open your mind and heart to that.

Be at peace.

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I dont like my 4 inch willy. I want to be humiliated and degraded by a huge cocked top because of how inferior I am to his superior man meat.

why is there no small cock humiliation porn for gay people? :(
 

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You don't bring it up at all. You just go down on her like a champ, totally worship her entire body until she's grabbing at you to come up for air, no reciprocation, and get her so worked up she's ready to jump on your pinky. Seriously, talk about a killjoy, never bring up your cock size before the deed just give her a tangible reason to want you not just your dick. Look, that's what you were born with, you can't change it, but you can change her mind if size is an issue for her/you. If a guy spends a lot of unselfish time on me I'm happy to return the favor regardless of his size. I may prefer a bigger cock but big effort goes a long way in rectifying that. I get mine, and good, trust me I'll be determined to make you feel the same way. A woman who walks after you take the time to make sure she feels good is a selfish bitch and you're better off not knowing her.
 
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I dont like my 4 inch willy. I want to be humiliated and degraded by a huge cocked top because of how inferior I am to his superior man meat.

why is there no small cock humiliation porn for gay people? :(

agree!
 

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You don't bring it up at all. You just go down on her like a champ, totally worship her entire body until she's grabbing at you to come up for air, no reciprocation, and get her so worked up she's ready to jump on your pinky. Seriously, talk about a killjoy, never bring up your cock size before the deed just give her a tangible reason to want you not just your dick. Look, that's what you were born with, you can't change it, but you can change her mind if size is an issue for her/you. If a guy spends a lot of unselfish time on me I'm happy to return the favor regardless of his size. I may prefer a bigger cock but big effort goes a long way in rectifying that. I get mine, and good, trust me I'll be determined to make you feel the same way. A woman who walks after you take the time to make sure she feels good is a selfish bitch and you're better off not knowing her.

What makes you think it might be a 'she' ???