How to trick a straight man??

[dolfette]

you can't value him much as a friend.

 

[B_bi_mmf]

I think his use of "trick" is a poor choice of words. He doesn't really mean trick -- he means a clever come on etc.

Best advice I can give you is be upfront and not creepy. Lots of straight guys will let you suck them as long as you're not creepy about it. Oh, and 6 beers and porn helps.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lm2a6klWHbc

I agree with your point about a poor choice of words. People have been too harsh in their criticism, it seems to me.

Great clip!

 

[beltboy]

I think a drinking situation that somehow involves porn...like "hey, you should see what this couple did" kind of thing. Then ask him if he is hard, show him your bulge. Ive done this, but unscripted and naturally, lol, and in all cases the guys obliged by at least showing it to me...lol

 

[offside]

Its just not right.I've been there - You are a young man stop perving on your straight buddy - get up off your ass get out there an meet somebody and sort yourself out sexually - Bellieve me it works!!

 

[offside]

*believe*

 

[green carnation]

how could anyone refuse your handsome package? Flash him back!

 

[Alem0909]

Hey I do love him as a friend and I really value his friendship. Of course proceeding with this plan would mean risking something but I don't think it would be too bad to loose his friendship and, anyway I think "if a friendship ends it wasn't a real friendship".
And yes, maybe the word "trick" wasn't the best, you can't TRICK someone into having sex!! Thanks again for all your advices!

 

[B_Hung Jon]

Thanks everybody! I got a few laughts aout of some of the comments!! I think I'm gonna try Maxim's advice. I know it might be childish but, come on! I'm 20 y/o if I don't do this kind of things now...! I hate it when I think "What if I had done this or that?"

Ok, here's a suggestion...just ask him. Tell him you want to check out his body and dick. Be direct. Maybe think if someone asked to check you out. Would you? :biggrin1:

 

[D_Pudcastle Tallywacker]

The virgin conquest for the gay man is to nail(get nailed) a straight dude. If the dude is straight he wont want anything to do sexually with you... if he does... duh he's gay.

 

[D_Wally Walnuts]

Hey I do love him as a friend and I really value his friendship. Of course proceeding with this plan would mean risking something but I don't think it would be too bad to loose his friendship and, anyway I think "if a friendship ends it wasn't a real friendship".
And yes, maybe the word "trick" wasn't the best, you can't TRICK someone into having sex!! Thanks again for all your advices!

Just saying, you ask a lot from your friends man. :lmao:

Maybe y'all are cool like that (since he got naked) and it might work out the way you want. I've got a friend that I suspect is bi and if he tried to get me drunk and get physical with me, we can't be cool. All trust goes out the window at that point. It has more to do with trust than it does with sex. Like someone posted earlier, I wouldn't try to do that to a lesbian friend.

That's just my .02...

 

[TomCat84]

Why the fuck would you wanna "trick" ANYONE into having sex with you, if they wouldn't in normal circumstances? Just tell him you wanna fuck.

 

[BigDallasDick8x6]

If the dude is straight he wont want anything to do sexually with you... if he does... duh he's gay.

Will people ever get tired of saying the same thing over and over? The above sentence has been posted (in various forms) I don't know how many times. In 1948 Kinsey found that 1/3rd of the gays reported at least one homosexual experience. Was 1/3rd of the US male population gay in 1948?? NO. Because one experience does not make you gay. Geez, people -- c'mon this is 2010. We ought to know better by now.

 

[wild_boy]

My advice is to have him see you naked as well, for example go jogging together and let him see you before shower. Keep it soft to not startle the poor guy and see how he reacts. If you notice any hint of interest you can ask "Do you like it?" and follow this route. Who knows, maybe he has secret crash on you that led him to show you his own body first..

Watching porn together is also good idea, you can start jerking off beside him and see if he decides to join.

Anyway, in response to the other replies here:

1. "Tricking a friend is nasty thing to do etc..":
   No, it's not nasty and it's perfectly reasonable desire in my opinion. Sometimes one suddenly see different side of a friend and is curious about that side - be it sexual or not. The friend can agree or disagree, it's totally up to him/her of course but if he's good friend with some common sense he'll not get angry.
2. "Straight friend who agree to play with me is gay":
   No! I'm almost 100% sure that at least one out of three men, probably more, experienced some kind of touch or played with other men, especially when younger. It does not mean 33% of the world are gays, most men just see they don't like it and move on.
   Maybe 20 is already too late, but who knows?
   The original poster here didn't say he want full sex with his friend, just "mess with me a little bit" - touching other man cock doesn't make you gay.. it doesn't mean you're attracted to the cock owner or seek to know other men. It only means you enjoy the thrill, especially if it's friend you know from different angles.

 

[B_BoysAreToys]

Super
weird!

 

[B_OtterJoq]

Well if you made moves on him and he hated you after, would it be worth it?

Exactly.

The original question makes me uncomfortable. IMHO, it reinforces stereotypes about gay men.

 

[B_OtterJoq]

I don't think it would be too bad to loose his friendship...

Then I really doubt that you "love" him as a friend, either.

Sorry to sound harsh, but it just sounds like you find a guy to be hot, you can't have him, but you want him anyway it you really don't care about how he feels about the situation.

Forgive my judgment, because I don't know you, but it seems a little selfish to me.

Again, ONLY my opinion.

 

[BigDallasDick8x6]

In 1948 Kinsey found that 1/3rd of the gays reported at least one homosexual experience. Was 1/3rd of the US male population gay in 1948?? NO. Because one experience does not make you gay.

Sorry, that should have been 1/3rd of the GUYS.....

 

[BigDallasDick8x6]

The original question makes me uncomfortable. IMHO, it reinforces stereotypes about gay men.

Right -- because a straight guy would never try to go to bed with a hot female friend or co-worker. How about we say it reinforces stereotypes about MEN. And I'd guess 90% of the men wouldn't change their behavior because someone said that. >>

HORNDOG: Let's have sex.....
TARGET: You're such a stereotypical man!
HORNDOG: Whatever --Suck my dick.

 

[jpk338]

you don't trick anyone! friends are hard to come by. in high school i had a str8 friend and he knew i was gay and that i thought he was good looking. i proposed that we play strip poker. he said ok, and all i can say i'm glad my Mom taught me how to play poker. i won and got to see what i wanted. we still laugh about it today. the game was played in 1967 and we have been friends ever since. as i said good friends are hard to find. think about it. good luck:biggrin1:

 

[sbat]

Right -- because a straight guy would never try to go to bed with a hot female friend or co-worker. How about we say it reinforces stereotypes about MEN. And I'd guess 90% of the men wouldn't change their behavior because someone said that. >>

Fair point.
But I have to say, in your friend's situation, I would be far more open to "whatever" if you were up front about what you wanted. If your friend is no dummy and is ambivalent to you sexually, he might get mad enough to fuck you up once he figures out your game.

But I know little about gay sexual etiquette, so this may be a respectable move (at least judging by the number of willing co-conspirators)