How touchy/feely were you with other men while closeted?

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I'm curious how comfortable you were showing affection to other men before you were out. I know some gays avoid it in fear of revealing themselves. Me personally I've always been super handsy and never worried about hiding it
 

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I came out when I was 38 years old. Still not comfortable with men to such an extent that I cannot pee or change clothes without getting erection. As a result, lonely life till date. I am 40 and now I am longing for bromance and I feel jealous of other men who can easily make male friendships, play sports together, use restroom together, etc.
 

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I'm technically still closeted and I am touchy with guys in strictly platonic ways. I don't "overly" touch any of my male friends if that's what you mean.
Yeahh I just wanted to know how touchy. My friend is like that too..(we are positive he's bisexual). He will let me cuddle with him and lay my head on his chest and we hug eachtoher a lot or he will tickle my waist a lot but we don't grab eachothers asses or go near eachothers dicks. He says there's nothing sexual about it to him but little does he know I have a crush on him so I would go farther if he let me
 
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Yeahh I just wanted to know how touchy. My friend is like that too..(we are positive he's bisexual). He will let me cuddle with him and lay my head on his chest and we hug eachtoher a lot or he will tickle my waist a lot but we don't grab eachothers asses or go near eachothers dicks. He says there's nothing sexual about it to him but little does he know I have a crush on him so I would go farther if he let me
Well I was on a soccer team during high school days and I engaged in lots of horseplay and playful touching (non sexual) with my teammates. For whatever the reason it never felt sexual to me (I didn't get hardons while changing) none of that. I think once I vew someone as like a good friend. They are like a brother to me I don't view them sexually. So any touch. Even an ass slap or wrestling won't be an issue for me.
 

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Well I was on a soccer team during high school days and I engaged in lots of horseplay and playful touching (non sexual) with my teammates. For whatever the reason it never felt sexual to me (I didn't get hardons while changing) none of that. I think once I vew someone as like a good friend. They are like a brother to me I don't view them sexually. So any touch. Even an ass slap or wrestling won't be an issue for me.
That makes sense. To me, I still view the touching with my friend is sexual because I have a big crush on him but he claims he doesn't view any touching as sexual. That could be the case, but he checks me out sexually and it seems the touching with me isn't your typical straight guy touching. It gets pretty intimate. Who knows