How Trying to Increase My Penis Has Ruined My Life

Discussion in 'Penis Enlargement' started by miaboy77, Apr 14, 2008.

  1. miaboy77

    miaboy77 New Member

    Joined:
    Mar 6, 2008
    Messages:
    23
    Likes Received:
    0
    Never would I think my Life would come to this.

    It all started by obsessing over increasing the length of my penis.
    Why ? Why in gods name would I want this ?


    Here is my story,

    Before my penis skin was smooth,and wrapped perfectly around my shaft.


    I buy a vaccutech pump and use it probably 5 times not going above to 5 mark.
    I buy a bathmate pump. I use it twice in the same session. There was so much intense pressure on my penis that it felt like it was exploding. I only kept it on for a little bit.

    In between the sessions over the period of maybe 2 weeks I did have heavy masturbation.

    So when I saw my penis to look swollen on the sides like it had way to much blood in it I realized what I was doing was stupid and I wanted to get it back down to its original state. I did some warm compresses etc.

    I noticed I had all this extra skin now on the bottom of my shaft to the sides. It was so much extra,loose skin it was folding up scrunching and causing my penis to look shriveled up.

    I went to a urologist and he said it was fine just pulled to much, it was normal. I tried to explain to him that the skin used to be fine perfectly wrapped around my shaft. He was not that great of a doctor and seemed to push me out very fast.

    As the days went on the skin gets worse. Scrunching up more and more and more. Its lost all and I mean ALL its original elasticity around my shaft. It looks like a dog took it and chewed all over it. It is now loose,dark,leathery,has stretch marks,is forming scar tissue,is shriveled up. It feels as if the skin has completely come off my shaft all OVER my penis. ALL OVER. The skin is mushy and leathery all over.

    I feel I myself mutilated my penis. It was me, I'm the one who bought the products. I'm the one who should of known love what you have because its all you got.

    Now I am going to see another urologist and dermatologist and explain to them in great detail what I did and what is happening.

    Over the course of a month I watched my penis transform from normal to a disgusting monster.

    IF ANYONE I MEAN ANYONE HAS OR HAD THIS PROBLEM WITH YOUR SKIN SEPERATING FROM YOUR SHAFT PLEASE GOD TELL ME HOW TO GET IT BACK. PLEASE TELL ME A WAY FOR MY PENIS TO GO BACK TO THE WAY IT WAS. I WILL DO ANYTHING. LIGHT TREATMENTS,SURGERY, ANYTHING FOR MY PENIS SKIN TO LOOK THE WAY IT USED TO.
     
  2. roger_dodger

    roger_dodger New Member

    Joined:
    Jun 29, 2006
    Messages:
    188
    Likes Received:
    1
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Indiana
    If it happened to me, I would go buy a Ford Angela and go back to the future...errr the past.
     
  3. psidom

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Sep 7, 2006
    Messages:
    1,861
    Albums:
    3
    Likes Received:
    2
    pumps always scared the shit out of me.
    i bought one cause i am not happy with my size either
    but when i began using it my intuition just said this is wrong.
    so i junked it,it gave me a dizzy sick feeling i was not cool with.

    i am sorry you are going through this and i hope
    the cock heals and become one again.
    scary ass story man.:eek:
     
  4. miaboy77

    miaboy77 New Member

    Joined:
    Mar 6, 2008
    Messages:
    23
    Likes Received:
    0
    you know what at this point I might just restore my foreskin theres so much skin
     
  5. Hotrocker

    Hotrocker Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    May 7, 2007
    Messages:
    851
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    358
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Georgia (US)
    Exactly what I'm currently doing. I actually wish I had more skin wrinkling and building up around the head... because then I know I'm making progress. And hey, with a foreskin, everything is so much better, apparently. I'm trying for a CI- 5 or CI- 6 on here, myself.

    Foreskin Coverage Index
     
  6. CaptainChaos

    CaptainChaos New Member

    Joined:
    Dec 17, 2007
    Messages:
    153
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Canada
    ya i would never use anything like pumps or stretching devices.
     
  7. tinydick4u

    tinydick4u Member

    Joined:
    Apr 12, 2008
    Messages:
    237
    Likes Received:
    2
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Upstate, South Carolina,USA
    I used a pump that was to big for my size.I used it infrequently,but when I did the skin behind the head would stay swollen and sore for days.It was a dangerous design.It had no pressure gauge.Glad I gave up on it.
     
  8. Oncamale28

    Oncamale28 New Member

    Joined:
    Apr 1, 2006
    Messages:
    645
    Albums:
    3
    Likes Received:
    20
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Hawaii
    it may quite possibly shrink up give it some time and see
     
  9. miaboy77

    miaboy77 New Member

    Joined:
    Mar 6, 2008
    Messages:
    23
    Likes Received:
    0
    I might restore my foreskin but only with THE PROPER TOOLS AND WITH GUIDED ONE ON ONE HELP. I am only worried about my thin and tender skin. I was usig Vitamin E oil on it and I don't know if that made it thinner or thicker ?
     
  10. cpump

    cpump New Member

    Joined:
    May 28, 2004
    Messages:
    17
    Albums:
    2
    Likes Received:
    19
    Gender:
    Male
    It's a shame you have had such a bad experience with pumping. I've been pumping since 1991 and still love it - actually I'm puming now!
     
  11. Hotrocker

    Hotrocker Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    May 7, 2007
    Messages:
    851
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    358
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Georgia (US)
    If your shaft skin is stretching, its stretching because more skin is being produced due to the stretching itself. The whole idea behind skin stretching is the constant tension applied to it. If you've ever seen the culture that pierces their ears and puts large metal rings in the piercing to stretch their ear lobes... its the same concept. I guess its skin mitosis.

    Foreskin Restoration Chat. Largest Foreskin Restoration Resources, Information Site for Circumcised Men about Restoring on the Net.- Foreskin restoration forums, live foreskin restoring support chat
     
  12. Pecker

    Pecker Retired Moderator
    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Mar 5, 2002
    Messages:
    83,922
    Likes Received:
    34
    Not to make light of your predicament, miaboy, but this sounds like the plot of a new horror B-movie.
     
  13. seahorses

    seahorses Member

    Joined:
    Mar 31, 2006
    Messages:
    951
    Likes Received:
    2
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    UK
    It's not increasing the size of your penis that's ruined your life, well definately not from the very short amont of pumping you've done and assuming you are normal. I'd say that something else is the problem.
     
  14. kanzon

    kanzon New Member

    Joined:
    Nov 10, 2007
    Messages:
    14
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    usa
    I read your prior posts, and fuzzyken's response really stood out, I'm reprinting it here.(Your wrinkled skin will be okay--just let it be for awhile-comprendee?)
    Anyway..





    FuzzyKen is http://www.lpsg.org/images36/statusicon/user_offline.gif
    Join Date: Nov 2006
    Gender: Male
    Posts: 88



    Dear Miaboy,

    When I was your age, I was you. I had cystic acne which started in my early teens complicated by early heavy beard growth which worsened the scarring and I made many mistakes based on the time.

    The first thing is to at this time forget the hair removal. Don't even consider that one until you are at least 35 years old. Like you, I am extremely hairy with hair in places that is far in excess of average including my back and shoulders. I was hairy in HS, BUT the real hair growth did not start until I reached my early 30's and then it was "wookie time". If you are hairy enough to consider removal at 20, new hair will be sprouting in mass quantities as you age. The hair removal guys will try and make a living off of you and you will go back over and over again to clear the same areas. If they tell you anything else they lie to get your money!

    In HS I did not reach 5'7" till my senior year and finally ended up 5'9" by the time it was all over. My body weight then was 120-125 pounds.

    Concentrate your financial efforts and physical efforts for change on one front at the gym and on the other front in your PE if you feel you need improvement in that area.

    I now own and live on a Horse Ranch in the American Southwest. I concentrated efforts with lots of physical exercise, riding, and doing the work necessary to keep the ranch going. All of this when I am not at a desk, making a living. This and my time at the gym now has me now at 185-190 pounds and it is not fat either.

    My spouse and I "adopted" our Nephew when things got really bad for him at home towards the end of HS. He is now 20 and will be celebrating his 21st in July of this year. He also inherited the family "wookie genes" and is extremely hairy. In his case, his butt and legs are so covered that seeing skin is the hard part. The hair on his arms and wrists is long and his dark beard shadow goes most of the way up his cheeks. The chest is hairy and the growth is now starting to appear on his shoulders and back. Now to make this more interesting he is your height and has decided to go into professional bodybuilding. Yes, when he competes he is going to have to shave or chemically remove the hair, but he considers it a masculine adornment. In the beginning he also considered professional removal and then considered what it would cost and what it would involve choosing to "shave it when he competes and gets paid to do it".

    The other thing that he has found as his muscle mass and weight has increaed is that he has had no shortage of people wanting sex from him. Right now you and he are about the same height. His current weight is just under 185 pounds with 17+ inch biceps.

    When we got him over two years ago, he had major self-confidence issues and also like you he had lived the life of a hermit because of it. In his case he had come from a family where there was an abusive alcoholic father.

    Good part-

    Remember that improvement comes from adding things to those that already make you different and unique, not subtracting from the unique qualities that set you apart from the crowd.

    Really good part-thanks fuzzyken

    One of the things that came out from my nephews therapy a while ago. Love yourself for who you are right now, because if you change too much too quickly, you lose the greatest thing on the planet and that is you. I also told my own nephew what I am telling you right now. God only made one of you. Improve it and add to it but never take away from how great you already are!

    Good Luck
    Fuzzy Ken
     
  15. HetroErectus

    HetroErectus New Member

    Joined:
    Apr 15, 2008
    Messages:
    1
    Likes Received:
    0
    Why can't you just surgically remove the skin that has grown back? I mean, if you can get a circumcision at this day of age I'm sure a surgeon can remove the little skin that has "grown back", or am I missing something?
     
  16. 18t

    18t New Member

    Joined:
    Apr 26, 2006
    Messages:
    50
    Likes Received:
    1
    Same EXACT thing happend to me a few years ago in almost every detail. Do LOTS of PC muscle exercises every day and eventually things will be back to normal and better. PC flexes will reshape your penis from the bottom up if done right and it will look and feel very healthy. Put it this way.... A few years ago, after pumping, cock rings, jelquing, etc. it was good for the short term (not that I even really needed it, but you know how it is). But, when I stopped, its like my penis was getting smaller, extra lose skin at the base, weak erections, weak/premature ejac, and it just looked and felt....... wrong. After months of depresion and unsucessful doc vistits (never had the nerve to go to a urologist) I started PC flexes. After a few months of that things got better and eventually back to normal. Now, a few years later, everything looks and feels as good as it was and BETTER. Im ALL about PC flexes and I know that it is the only safe effective way to safely get a bigger healthy cock. I probably do 500+ flexes/day with a day off every now and then. I was 7.75" long before, 7"ish or less when I fucked up, and now at about 8" and not sure what size girth but its thicker for sure. A bonus with my beefy pc muscle is how intense orgasms are and when I cum its like a bomb went off with much more volume and distance. Pc muscle exercises FTW. Good luck and dont take what I say with a grain of salt.
    Also, its most effective to do the flexes with an erection or semi erect. If you have problems sustaining an erection while doing these exercises (like I did) then a very small dose of viagra or cialis would help every now and then to sort of jump start the routine.
     
  17. B_boynextdoorkpt

    B_boynextdoorkpt New Member

    Joined:
    Apr 8, 2008
    Messages:
    944
    Likes Received:
    2
    Location:
    Isle of Palms SC
    Miaboy,
    I, as well as you, suffer the small penis syndrome. I am afraid of pumps, though I saw some in a sex shop here in Charleston. Anyway, have you thought about contacting a plastic surgeon? They can lengthen the penis surgically by cutting 2 tendons that hold the base.
    Landon
     
  18. 18t

    18t New Member

    Joined:
    Apr 26, 2006
    Messages:
    50
    Likes Received:
    1
    Did you know you can make yourself taller by cutting the tendons in your legs? But you wont be able to stand up anymore. Same concept... Worthless.....
     
  19. spunkyboy2008

    spunkyboy2008 New Member

    Joined:
    Apr 9, 2008
    Messages:
    354
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    12
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    England
    From what I've heard it's very expensive and doesn't have a great success rate... surely it's better to have a properly functioning penis than a larger useless one?

    Manual excercises seem like a better bet, safer and free, though they do take some time and don't work for everyone it seems. See Free Penis Enlargement Exercise Forum - The PE Gym if you're interested.
     
  20. w1llber

    w1llber New Member

    Joined:
    Feb 7, 2008
    Messages:
    43
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    UK
    The reason you guys are having problems when pe'ing is highlited in your very post. PC flexes are an important part of pe. Il include a point made by a pe vet from a pe forum

    "Q. What if I just want to do my PE exercises without doing Kegels and other stamina work?

    Big Al: That may bring problems. Stamina work strengthens the penis and improves circulation. Improved circulation is necessary to deal with whatever microtrauma may be caused by your PE exercises, and it'll allow more blood to travel to your penis (and stay there). Your penis is a hydraulic organ- if you enlarge it, it will need to be structurally stronger in order to function optimally"

    I think if at the time you had combined your pe with your stamina work you wouldnt have encountered any problems, just a thought
     
Draft saved Draft deleted